paulmurphy05
12-17-2008, 12:39 PM
Hi all,
i am now half way through the second week of my chastity, with my wife as my keyholder. Our lifes are changing for the better now, with me being allowed to live out my submissive desires and serve my wife. i consider myself very lucky to be head-over-heels in love with my wife, and for her to accept my submissive side and for her to be my keyholfer. Live has never been better.
But i would love to introduce domestic discipline into our relationship. i have an internal need to be spanked and disciplined as correction or when i displease my wife. i would love for our relationship to go deeper into D/s and to give over more control to my wife. i dearly love serving her, and i would like to offer her more power over me, including to power to punish me (other than elongating the time between my orgasms). i have 'jokingly' mentioned spanking to her once over the past week, and she just said 'we don't do that'.
So my question to you all is how could i appraoch her and explain my desire for her to discipline me as part of my training to serve her? i've scoured the net, but there is very little material on this (whereas i found and used plenty in order to open the discussion of male chastity with her).
i'd really appreciate you help here, particularly female perspectives or the opinions of males who are currently spanked by their wifes.
Thanks in advance,
paul
i am now half way through the second week of my chastity, with my wife as my keyholder. Our lifes are changing for the better now, with me being allowed to live out my submissive desires and serve my wife. i consider myself very lucky to be head-over-heels in love with my wife, and for her to accept my submissive side and for her to be my keyholfer. Live has never been better.
But i would love to introduce domestic discipline into our relationship. i have an internal need to be spanked and disciplined as correction or when i displease my wife. i would love for our relationship to go deeper into D/s and to give over more control to my wife. i dearly love serving her, and i would like to offer her more power over me, including to power to punish me (other than elongating the time between my orgasms). i have 'jokingly' mentioned spanking to her once over the past week, and she just said 'we don't do that'.
So my question to you all is how could i appraoch her and explain my desire for her to discipline me as part of my training to serve her? i've scoured the net, but there is very little material on this (whereas i found and used plenty in order to open the discussion of male chastity with her).
i'd really appreciate you help here, particularly female perspectives or the opinions of males who are currently spanked by their wifes.
Thanks in advance,
paul