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Tramplee
09-10-2008, 3:52 PM
As we all know, there is not much point in looking for a dominant woman on the internet, since they are outnumbered by submissive males 20 to 1. However, I found a way to word an ad on Craigslist that finds local women who want to learn about BDSM by beating me (HARD) with a cane. I get about 1 response per ad, which is awesome for this type of request. The responders typically live in a bad area of town, are big and strong, generally African American, not real good at grammar and spelling, and often flash gang signs on their MySpace pages. They have no experience of BDSM but want to learn.

So obviously if I were to actually meet up with one of these women, the process would not be inherently safe. Yet I find the idea of a multiple thrashings by a big strong stranger to be incredibly thrilling. What could I do to make such a meeting safer, or at least avoid an attempted suicide rap :) ?

lildog
09-11-2008, 6:10 PM
Bring a glock.

Bayern
09-16-2008, 9:09 PM
LOL @ lildog's advice ... nearly lost it !

But I'd say don't meet her on her side of town, discuss SSC and safewords with her (i.e. your "best" choice of those who replied) ... the more you talk with her and educate her / yourself with it the safer the encounter will be (and probably the more fun ;))

Although it hadn't really occurred that craigslist would be worthwhile for finding a "partner" ... maybe it could be. Tell us how it turns if either way :)

Zool1983
09-29-2008, 4:02 AM
Lol that sounds grim indeed. Well anyway post back your experience if ur still alive and still the proud owner of a healthy bank account ...

Jadis
10-02-2008, 9:27 PM
Unfortunately my luck in that venue (Craig's List) has been limited at best - some just due to logistics ... and some definitely due to players and phoneys. Anything of that nature (meaning a newbie) and especially with a stranger has serious risks involved. Is it really worth that to you, could there be other possible ways to go about meeting the women of your desires? Make sure you've exhausted all avenues ... just to be safe: I'd be VERY leery about attempting this sort of thing.

xox Lady Jadis