Mistress Sadie
03-26-2008, 1:19 PM
In terms of total obedience and complete humiliation, one of the most intensely debasing situations a submissive man can endure is being required to stand passively by while a beloved woman chooses another man to share her bed. The true definition of the word cuckold is a man whose wife is unfaithful to him. To some, however, a man whose girlfriend or Mistress engages in sexual encounters with other men can also qualify as a cuckold. The key element seems to be that the cuckold has a strong emotional attachment to a woman who enjoys a sexual relationship with another man. The psychological dynamics of cuckolding is fascinating, involving both submission and humiliation.
Becoming a cuckold requires unconditional submission. A docile man must acknowledge that it is the right of the woman he loves and worships to have the sexual freedom of a single woman. The cuckold must tolerate her infidelity in lieu of his jealousy and the devastation of his male ego. Moreover, the cuckold must remain monogamous to her. In many cuckold relationships, the dominant woman ensures her cuckold’s co-operation and fidelity by making him wear a chastity device. This adds a second element to her dominance; the cuckold must practice celibacy while the adored woman enjoys an active sex life.
Humiliation is a psychological form of masochism. The cuckold takes a morose pleasure in being rejected and betrayed by the woman he loves. A cuckold relishes the shame of knowing that the beloved woman is enjoying a sexual relationship with another man that is better looking, better endowed, and a better lover than he is. The cuckold must live with the disgrace of loosing the woman he loves, at least temporarily, to a successful rival for her affections. And then, there is the element of fear on the part of the cuckold: apprehension that the woman he adores will fall in love with the other man and leave him and the dread of scandal generated by her trysts.
Voyeurism is also a factor. In most cases, cuckolds wish to be tormented by either being forced to personally witness the act of adultery or to have it described to them in graphic detail. There is no debasing excitement for the submissive male if the woman’s extramarital adventures are accomplished behind his back.
Yet another layer of to the psychological dynamics of cuckolding is the power exchange between the cuckold and the beloved woman’s lover. The cuckold is inferior to the other man. He must step aside when this alpha male is fucking “his” woman.
Cuckolds are generally obsessed with penis size. In some cases, cuckolding is a means for the submissive male to explore same-sex fantasies vicariously through his female partner. In other instances, the cuckold is required to interact with the other man and be submissive to him. Incidentally, prominent cuckold fantasies include butler/maid servitude, forced homosexuality and “cream pie” eating.
It is interesting to note that according to various surveys, the number of affairs among married women has been steadily increasing in recent years and, according to some reliable research, the percentage of women who cheat on their spouse now exceeds the number for cheating men. It is estimated that fourteen percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their lives, and that forty percent of women will have an affair at some point during their marriage. Participating with their wife in a threesome ranks high among the top male fantasies. Ninety-two percent of men responding to one poll agreed that a lesbian affair would qualify as cuckolding.
In some circles, women wear a conspicuous ankle bracelet on their right ankle to let it be known to those involved in the cuckolding lifestyle that she is married but very much available. Some women wear the key to their husband’s chastity device as a charm on their ankle bracelet; however, of course, most women who wear ankle bracelets do so without attributing any special significance to it.
The enjoyment a slave experiences from worshiping the feet of a dominant woman, in part, stems from the fact that her foot is the lowest part of her body. Groveling at a woman’s feet is symbolic of the slave’s lowly status. Doing so compels him to acknowledge and savor his inferiority. My foot slave begs to be humiliated at my feet. To intensify his debasement as worships my feet, I sometimes tell him of the more significant men in my life.
For the past two weeks, while my slave lies under my feet, inhaling their fragrance and cleaning the accumulated dirt off them with his tongue, I have been telling him about a man I befriended at the health club. The man-- I’ll call him Hayden-- is very good looking, and I am really turned on by his hard, muscular body. Each time talk about my flirting with Hayden, my foot slave grimaces with delicious shame; he is not man enough to be a viable lover and that is why I use him to service my feet.
To further my slave’s humiliation, I insisted that he go to the health club and loiter in the men’s locker room until he had an opportunity to peek at Hayden. When my slave returned from his mission, it was obvious that he was filled with ignominy. As he knelt before me, my slave sheepishly described Hayden’s genitalia to me. In its flaccid condition and swinging like a pendulum, Hayden’s penis was larger than my slave’s full erection in both length and circumference. I was very pleased with the disclosure.
As a reward to my slave, I presented him with my bare feet and an order to give me pedilingus. Then my phone rang. It was Hayden; I had given him my phone number and had been expecting him to call. I settled back into the sofa and started working my bare feet up and down my slave’s face and in and out of his mouth. My slave knew what I expected of him, and he eagerly started licking my feet from heel to toe as I chatted on the phone. Hayden asked me if I was available that evening. I told him that I had no special plans, even though I had just promised my slave an evening at my feet. Hayden invited me for diner and I accepted, smiling down at the disappointed look on my slave’s face. Demonstrating his unconditional obedience, however, my slave continued to kiss my feet even as I laid plans to jilt him.
After saying goodbye to Hayden, I informed my slave that I would be taking a rain check on his foot services. In consolation, however, I told my slave that he could help me get ready for my date. As I took a shower, dressed in a sexy, low-cut cocktail dress and applied my make up, my slave dutifully tongue-shined the high heeled sandals I had selected to wear on my date. All the while, as he lapped the grime from my shoes, both inside and out, I taunted my slave about how much fun I was going to have with Hayden.
Rushing my slave out the door, I promised to call him after my date so that he could come over and tongue-bathe my feet. I told him not to wait up for me. And I shut the door in his face.
I knew my slave would be counting the minutes until I summon him. He will lie awake in bed and wonder what I am doing at every given moment. His mind’s eye will envision erotic scenarios and jealousy will consume him; but yet he craves to surrender his dignity to me. He savors my insolence. My slave’s hunger for my unwashed feet and craving for bittersweet masochistic ecstasy will converge the next day, when I make him lick the passion-produced sweat from between my toes.
Knowing the perspiration on my feet was created by the passion I shared with another man increases my slave’s degradation a thousand fold and makes my feet even more delicious to him. My cuckolded slave will ravenously lick my dirty, sweaty feet as I rave about what a wonderful time I had with Hayden.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mistresssadiesfootshrine/
Becoming a cuckold requires unconditional submission. A docile man must acknowledge that it is the right of the woman he loves and worships to have the sexual freedom of a single woman. The cuckold must tolerate her infidelity in lieu of his jealousy and the devastation of his male ego. Moreover, the cuckold must remain monogamous to her. In many cuckold relationships, the dominant woman ensures her cuckold’s co-operation and fidelity by making him wear a chastity device. This adds a second element to her dominance; the cuckold must practice celibacy while the adored woman enjoys an active sex life.
Humiliation is a psychological form of masochism. The cuckold takes a morose pleasure in being rejected and betrayed by the woman he loves. A cuckold relishes the shame of knowing that the beloved woman is enjoying a sexual relationship with another man that is better looking, better endowed, and a better lover than he is. The cuckold must live with the disgrace of loosing the woman he loves, at least temporarily, to a successful rival for her affections. And then, there is the element of fear on the part of the cuckold: apprehension that the woman he adores will fall in love with the other man and leave him and the dread of scandal generated by her trysts.
Voyeurism is also a factor. In most cases, cuckolds wish to be tormented by either being forced to personally witness the act of adultery or to have it described to them in graphic detail. There is no debasing excitement for the submissive male if the woman’s extramarital adventures are accomplished behind his back.
Yet another layer of to the psychological dynamics of cuckolding is the power exchange between the cuckold and the beloved woman’s lover. The cuckold is inferior to the other man. He must step aside when this alpha male is fucking “his” woman.
Cuckolds are generally obsessed with penis size. In some cases, cuckolding is a means for the submissive male to explore same-sex fantasies vicariously through his female partner. In other instances, the cuckold is required to interact with the other man and be submissive to him. Incidentally, prominent cuckold fantasies include butler/maid servitude, forced homosexuality and “cream pie” eating.
It is interesting to note that according to various surveys, the number of affairs among married women has been steadily increasing in recent years and, according to some reliable research, the percentage of women who cheat on their spouse now exceeds the number for cheating men. It is estimated that fourteen percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their lives, and that forty percent of women will have an affair at some point during their marriage. Participating with their wife in a threesome ranks high among the top male fantasies. Ninety-two percent of men responding to one poll agreed that a lesbian affair would qualify as cuckolding.
In some circles, women wear a conspicuous ankle bracelet on their right ankle to let it be known to those involved in the cuckolding lifestyle that she is married but very much available. Some women wear the key to their husband’s chastity device as a charm on their ankle bracelet; however, of course, most women who wear ankle bracelets do so without attributing any special significance to it.
The enjoyment a slave experiences from worshiping the feet of a dominant woman, in part, stems from the fact that her foot is the lowest part of her body. Groveling at a woman’s feet is symbolic of the slave’s lowly status. Doing so compels him to acknowledge and savor his inferiority. My foot slave begs to be humiliated at my feet. To intensify his debasement as worships my feet, I sometimes tell him of the more significant men in my life.
For the past two weeks, while my slave lies under my feet, inhaling their fragrance and cleaning the accumulated dirt off them with his tongue, I have been telling him about a man I befriended at the health club. The man-- I’ll call him Hayden-- is very good looking, and I am really turned on by his hard, muscular body. Each time talk about my flirting with Hayden, my foot slave grimaces with delicious shame; he is not man enough to be a viable lover and that is why I use him to service my feet.
To further my slave’s humiliation, I insisted that he go to the health club and loiter in the men’s locker room until he had an opportunity to peek at Hayden. When my slave returned from his mission, it was obvious that he was filled with ignominy. As he knelt before me, my slave sheepishly described Hayden’s genitalia to me. In its flaccid condition and swinging like a pendulum, Hayden’s penis was larger than my slave’s full erection in both length and circumference. I was very pleased with the disclosure.
As a reward to my slave, I presented him with my bare feet and an order to give me pedilingus. Then my phone rang. It was Hayden; I had given him my phone number and had been expecting him to call. I settled back into the sofa and started working my bare feet up and down my slave’s face and in and out of his mouth. My slave knew what I expected of him, and he eagerly started licking my feet from heel to toe as I chatted on the phone. Hayden asked me if I was available that evening. I told him that I had no special plans, even though I had just promised my slave an evening at my feet. Hayden invited me for diner and I accepted, smiling down at the disappointed look on my slave’s face. Demonstrating his unconditional obedience, however, my slave continued to kiss my feet even as I laid plans to jilt him.
After saying goodbye to Hayden, I informed my slave that I would be taking a rain check on his foot services. In consolation, however, I told my slave that he could help me get ready for my date. As I took a shower, dressed in a sexy, low-cut cocktail dress and applied my make up, my slave dutifully tongue-shined the high heeled sandals I had selected to wear on my date. All the while, as he lapped the grime from my shoes, both inside and out, I taunted my slave about how much fun I was going to have with Hayden.
Rushing my slave out the door, I promised to call him after my date so that he could come over and tongue-bathe my feet. I told him not to wait up for me. And I shut the door in his face.
I knew my slave would be counting the minutes until I summon him. He will lie awake in bed and wonder what I am doing at every given moment. His mind’s eye will envision erotic scenarios and jealousy will consume him; but yet he craves to surrender his dignity to me. He savors my insolence. My slave’s hunger for my unwashed feet and craving for bittersweet masochistic ecstasy will converge the next day, when I make him lick the passion-produced sweat from between my toes.
Knowing the perspiration on my feet was created by the passion I shared with another man increases my slave’s degradation a thousand fold and makes my feet even more delicious to him. My cuckolded slave will ravenously lick my dirty, sweaty feet as I rave about what a wonderful time I had with Hayden.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mistresssadiesfootshrine/