Rebringing up my Fetish...

[FloorSarge]

Hi, i just recently turned 18 but have been visiting Daddo's site for a long time, and im finally able to post.
Unfortunatly, this first post is a plea for help.
This girl i know, my "mother" (not really, but inside joke) and my really close friend, she has some of the sexiest feet i've seen, but i dont know how to rebring up my trample/foot fetish in a way that would make her interested. I appreactire your respones, and am glad to be finally be able to post on this board

[door_step]

Well FloorSarge, it's as simple as it is difficult. There is no easy way:(
Just start up the subject and tell her. Explain your fetish in all eas and without excitement or making avances.
Do not keep this conversations late at night nor when she is tired and certaily without alcohol!!!
Do not try to ask her intrest in acting in this fetish!! It will most likely kill your mutual relation.
In other words: try to "get her help" in dealing with those feelings. If you're lucky, she might get interested after a while (months??). If not, you're still lucky, as you have spoken out your fetish for the first time in this way and it will help you to get yourselve organised.

doorstep

[charlie]

This is always going to be tough. Does anything else sexual happen between you two? I think alot of it depends on how close you are to her - my ex and I used to be great friends before we started going out (we are still close after our relationship too) and I told her about my thing for feet when we were just friends. She seemed ok with it, and let me do things like polish her boots, and sometimes smell her feet, because this was still nothing really sexual for her. Maybe telling her about things like that might help. I think the best thing you can do is just tell her the truth if you are good friends, and see how she responds. Quite a few of my female friends know about how I feel for feet, and contrary to what I thought, they still like me, and don't think I am weird for it.

[yull]

My dear friend,

The soul and the behavior of a women is sometime curious. I worked many years in teams made almost exclusively from ladies (not to mention when I was student - 200 students in the year and we were 12 boys ) but even now I say that is impossible to understand 100% their acts.

Maybe I can share you some of my experiences, you may use also e-mail. But give more detalies about how strong is your relation and on what is based ??

I really want to help you

:)

Friendly

Yull

[FloorSarge]

well i'd love to say we're close, and we are...its kind of like a best friend relationship, yet not really that strong..you know what i mean? and its based on..i dunno really, heh, just that we used to go out with eachothers friends and formed a relationship off that, that was 3 or 4 years ago

[yull]

Dear Friend,

well is possibe that your girlfriend (best friend) to trample you. But I believe that a open-mind girl will trample you if she loves you. If she loves you she will not think that you are a strange creature wanting a freakie thing.

Clarify your feelings as well as her feelings. Many times, from strong friendships result more strong loves and marriages.

Good luck

Yull