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[thatdammgood22]

NO girl i spoken to likes too face sit or they never heard of face sitting, Where do u find girls that enjoy to face sit men??????

Chris

[Logan]

How I have gotten girls in the position I like is simply modify the "69" when you are here it is so simple to reach down and grab the ladies breasts and pull her back until she is riding you. Once this is done you can ask her if she enjoyed the ride. If yes you found a winner if no then it was fun while it lasted. As for asking a women what her pleasures are while on a date. Well I have never been able to get the nerve up I just wait until we are naked to get into that.

Well thats my two cents worth!

[mlanders99]

You are correct thatdammgood22, most women don't like it. I've been lucky a few times when I was younger to connect with a saucey lover who would do whatever I asked (usually we'd both be drunk).

In my early twenties, I dated a young woman who was a dancer. She had strong legs and a perfect ass. She was just as shy as the rest of the girls I'd ever been wtih, but she said she liked being on top. She told me it made her feel powerful. I had her on my face one afternoon, sittling forward, back arched, her hands pressed hard on my chest. She was thrusting her pussy in my face, all swolen and wet. She rubbed and fucked my nose furiously for about 30 seconds, then it was like she realized what she was doing and stopped abruptly. I wanted her to keep going but she said she felt ashamed for letting go like that. Sad.

I'm happily married now and have been for 5 years, but even my wife, someone who trusts and loves me very much, won't accomodate my facesitting fetish with the ferver I'd like. She, just like all women, I believe, don't have that dominant nature that we on this board fantasize about. I dream of women who could sit on my face with no regard for me -- who just want to get off and don't care about my orgasm or my face. But, alas, most women do care about us, it's part of their makeup to be kind of submissive, loving, empathetic, beautiful people who won't use us like we'd like.

Has anyone here ever met a woman, started dating her and found out she's a dominant lover who wants you between her legs all the time? If so, tell your story.. no fiction.

ml

[coolshot]

That's a great story mlanders99, thanx for sharing it. :D :thumbsup:

[smotherman]

Mlanders99

It`s funny you started a thread like this!Everything you`ve said is 100 percent true.Most women are submissive by nature,Which we as submissive men hope and pray someday to be with a Dominant Woman in a relationship! So she can use and abuse our face like we want.

We all are searching for that special Woman with the ability to be Dominant.I`ve been extremely lucky i am currently involved in a relationship with a Dominant woman, which i might add" am the one who got her into "facesitting fetish" <<Taking a bow.LOL.

She had no idea what "facesitting-smother" fetish was until she met me, now she can`t get enough of feeling like she has the power over me, She is so natural with facesitting fetish"So Dominant women are out their! we just have to find them,By the way she does check out this message board from time to time.

Just do what i did, Don`t give up finding that Dominant partner for life, she is out their, i`ve always dreamed of finding my Dominant partner for life as my "Sitter" so i`m living proof as much as women say they hate facesitting, blah , blah, their are women who love this fetish , just be patience, don`t give up, and alittle praying doesn`t hurt.LOL.

Peace everyone
Smotherman

[mlanders99]

You are a lucky man smotherman.

I don't have the nerve to share the level of my fetish with my wife. I've told her that I want her to be more dominat in the sack, but I've never shown her this board.. or the many other websites that we all love.

Maybe I should. How can she know what I want if I don't show her?

Anyway, thanks for responding.
ml

[Rich]

I'm married; butt if I was looking, I'd go to bars. :)

[Scorpio]

monty, with an attitude like that you are going to end up a sad and lonely old man with only his right hand for company, much as you are now I guess!!!!

[AlexChapman4u]

Sorry gents....I have to disagree, because Ive had plenty of luck getting my face sat on and dominated in other ways. I do agree that it may be hard to go out and find a woman just too sit on your face, but this is normal.....You couldnt meet a woman and ask for sex the 1st night...it happens..but its not the norm.

I believe women are secretly dominant by nature. In most relationships they like to get there way, they just may not consider dominating you in a sexual way. Now someone who is not familiar with this lifestyle may be a little shy or timid at 1st...but once they find out that you are so turned on by it...they seem to enjoy it more and more.

I also think that women are from a different planet than men. It seems that many women can get turned on by doing something if they found out it turns the man on. In general men cant do this. If a woman was to tell the me that she gets extremely turned on by having her face sat on by a man...I couldnt do it...relationship over. On the other hand...if a woman finds out that you are so turned on by this..they seem to be curious as to why...and they soon learn to dominate you....and like it too.

Ive never paid a woman or seen a prostitute....but I have heard of guys doing this. This is fine. I guess Ive been lucky enough to not have to do this. The girl that Im dating now was dominating and competitive by nature. I had to ask her had she ever been involved with bdsm. She didnt even know what it was. After I exposed her to my world....showed her my art work...and looked at some videos. That was a year ago.

Now she sits on my face while watching movies...clothed or nude...and unexpected....and considers herself a Domme. She doesnt care what Im doing when she does this....and she has literally had me down there for over an hour or so...changing positions from time to time.

Also since Im a black american...I dont like to generalize or stereotype...but I have to say this. I dont think I have ever met a black woman who I would consider submissive. They may not be interested in dominating you sexually....but they are dominant in every other way....Ive always tried to get them to channel that dominant energy in a sexual way.

[nosypucker]

Several years ago a prominent sex researcher (it might have been Nancy Friday, but I don't remember for sure) did studies that revealed that 4 out of 5 men were secretly submissive in nature, and that the figures for women were -- just about the same! In other words, the 80% of us that are submissive are chasing the 20% of them that are dominant. I've had good luck meeting women who enjoyed face-sitting, but it has involved plenty of patience and hard work. My own experience has been that few women start off as eager face-sitters. You have to bring them to that point gradually, preferably letting them think it's their own idea.
As smotherman said, one excellent way to do it is to move into it from a 69 position, especially if you're bigger than she is. I'm fairly big, so I always use that to try to get the lady on top for intercourse, and I've found that having her sit back during the act provides more poweful orgasms for both of us. From that position, it's sometimes not too difficult to get her to slide forward afterward so you can clean her off. Once she's sat on your face that way and found it satisfactory, it's easier to get her to sit on you next time, and even to try facing the other way.
Rich, I'm afraid I disagree with you about looking in bars. There's too much disease around to risk going into that kind of environment looking for sex. The best bet is relatively decent girls who have a pretty good opinion of themselves, and are fairly selective.
There are a few things to keep in mind when searching for dominant women. Surprisingly often they are better looking than average. They may also be more passionate than average, enjoying being eaten and multiple orgasms, etc. Often they are athletic; frequently they were better athletes than boys at a young age, and really resented it when the boys got bigger and stronger so that it wasn't a fair contest any more. Such women often learned to use their development as females as a weapon to get back at boys for outgrowing them physically. If, while getting to know a girl, you find out that she used to outrun or outfight boys when she was smaller, you may well find out that she will be receptive to a position that puts her back on top. Surprisingly enough, most outspoken feminists are the worst prospects. Too many of them are too interested in making their debating points to be really good sexual partners. Look for women who like men, not the ones who hate them.
Because I'm a submissive, some of my enounters along these lines have led to my serving young ladies in various sexual capacities for extended periods of time, from months to as long as a year and a half. I'd suggest not pushing that angle, though. Once you've got a girl willing to sit on your face, just make sure that you don't break up with her badly. I make it a point to keep in touch with most of the girls who have ever sat on my face, and it's surprising how often a casual phone call to say hi again will turn into a face-sitting encounter, either at your suggestion or because she remembers how eager you were and how much she enjoyed it. (My favorite is a girl who I pride myself that I turned into a face-sitter; she likes to find submissive men and teach them to enjoy being sat on. Every time she breaks in a new one, she invites me over the next night and tells me about it in detail, which always ends up with her perched on my face, to our mutual delight.) When you call, you don't have to mention face-sitting, either, although she may well bring it up. You both know very well what will probably happen when you go out together again. It's a lot easier for the woman to sit again on a face she's enjoyed sitting on before than for her to go through the sometimes embarrassing procedure of breaking in a new man to the experience. Although most men would secretly love it, many of them are not as open about it as those of us who belong to this forum.
It is important to be subtle about it. If you play it right, you will never put yourself in a position of looking like a pervert (even if you secretly take pride in being one). Take it one step at a time and, if you don't get all the way one night, next time continue where you left off and try to keep it gradual. Whatever you do, don't start off by asking her bluntly to sit on your face. Even if she might be the right type to develop the habit, women don't like to be propositioned bluntly. Remember the old joke about the difference between intercourse and rape: Salesmanship, boy, salesmanship.
Good luck, and happy sitting!

[editor]

Thank God y new girlfriend(20 years old...could be my daughter) just discovered my great tongue and since last week pushes me to give her tongue dressed/undressed and whereever we are, fullfilling old fantasies i already experienced when i was that young also(18 years ago) with my then girlfriend Meghan.
One big advantage with young girls: Their pussies are short-trimmed instead of the bush some have ;).....

btw...She enjoys all the comfort i can give her while going out wich most guy's her age don't have...

[bikeseat]

For once I can see that I agree with Monty, on the 4 points he made about most women :D :rolleyes: :D

[Joe Chip]

I disagree. My girl facesat me instinctively from the beginning, I never even asked and now it's a regular thing and has been for years. And I love it. For me it's very much a panties thing and a leg thing,I love the moment when she is standing over me, fully clothed, wearing normal 'secretary' clothing – hose, white panties, heels – and then she stoops down, facing me, and simply smothers me with her panties while jerking me off. Amazing!

And, while I won't go into details, I found out today that other girls WILL do it too. But that's another story.

[Mistress Sitter]

Gentlemen,
You may not believe this, but I have had many sexual experiences where I have tried to dominate the male with facesitting smothering or bondage which I had hoped would lead to the previous preferences only to have them refuse.
And some were even insulted that I would take the dominant role, male ego thing I guess.
I also have to disagree with Montys notion all women are only after the material things, but that again is a male ego thing I do not understand.
How many men take advantage of women with the same results?
We are out there waiting for you gentlemen, trust me, and yourself:)

Mistress Sitter

[AlexChapman4u]

Originally posted by Mistress Sitter
Gentlemen,
You may not believe this, but I have had many sexual experiences where I have tried to dominate the male with facesitting smothering or bondage which I had hoped would lead to the previous preferences only to have them refuse.


Mistress Sitter



They simply may not be turned on by it...but thats hard to believe...I think they are more likely embarressed...their was a point in my life...early 20s....that I would have denied any interest in such a thing and would have laughed at the thought of it...even though secretly I have had facesitting thoughts since a child...