Passing out quietly

[Canadian Mike]

I am certain that this question has been presented on this board in the past, I just want to see if anyone can enlighten me on this issue. I came close to quietly passing out under a woman's bottm about 5 years ago, not to mention my session with Sonia Fernandez on November 2000. Incidently, I have a story somewhere written about both of these great sittings. I crave deep smothering and truly want to push the envelope to that stage. Sonia fernandez smothered me in a way that caused me to go into panic. In the end I became so wrapped up with fear that I pleaded with her not to do it to me anymore. The other lady did this unintentionally. She is a BIG girl and sat full weight on my face. She liked to see how long I'd go without air. Well, I thought that I was getting little snidbits of oxygen so I didn't feel a need to push up or panic. She finally got off my face after about two minutes. It was then that I realized that I was going to sleep. I know that there are risks with this form of smothering, but when it comes to life, isn't there always risks.

So I ask you that come here to visit and experience, despite medical reasons, has anyone passed out this way? Could anyone share in their experience? Lastly, how would you suggest I go about convincing a lady ( yea Debbee) to smother me out this way?

Look forward to any response and if you guys or gilrs woudl like to read the forementioned stories, let me know and I'll look for them and post.

CM

[jump]

I have never passed out, and I woulden´t feel good about that either. I think that its not very erotic for a women to pas out a man beneath her, most women (even if they are into facesitting) woulden´t feel good about that. Try turn it around, would you like to pas out a women you love ? .... or any women ?

I think you have a breathcontrol fetish in you. Some Dommes are very experienced in this and I think it would be better to find a women that are used to deal with breathcontrol. Its much safer for you, and you don´t put any inoncent women in a bad situation.

Good luck anyway

Ragards
jump

[TripleSITme]

I do have to say that I have passed out wih a woman sitting on my face one time. It wasnt for long, about 30 seconds or so, but i did pass out. I remember , her name was (Candy). Well, Candy had my ands and feet tied together and she sat with full weight directly on my nose. Her bottom covered my entire face. After abut 2 mins or so felt like I was under water and gasping for air. All I could see was black dots that looked like tiny little halos. The halos seemed to get bigger and bigger until I didnt see them anymore. The next thing I remember was her sitting up next to me on th bed asking me if I was alright. :machine:

[Rich]

OK Jump; If you must bring reality into it, it's probably not a good idea to actually have a woman smother you to death with her ass.
Butt hey; who ever said that reality had anything to do with fantasy. :p
All in all tho; Jump is right. If your going to have that kind of thing done to ya; better to have it done by someone that knows what they are doing.
The whole death scene would be very hard on the girl that takes your life! :eek:

[Canadian Mike]

I have come close to this like I mentioned, but I don't recall the darkness like you speak of. Did you feel panicy at all. Sonia Fernandez scared the shit out of me when she put on the facesit smother hold. No air at all for that matter. Anyway, thanks for sharing all of you guys even if it didn't answer my questions.

CM

[feelfree]

Originally posted by Canadian Mike
I have come close to this like I mentioned, but I don't recall the darkness like you speak of. Did you feel panicy at all. Sonia Fernandez scared the shit out of me when she put on the facesit smother hold. No air at all for that matter. Anyway, thanks for sharing all of you guys even if it didn't answer my questions.

CM

Mike,

I think what you are thinking of (and most likely something we would all like) is someone to smother us in a way that brings us to that point but gradually. As the body gets used to the lack of breathing a full breath, it relaxes. The more relaxed you are, the less you react, the deeper the smother and the deeper the extent you "go under."

Sonia was just brute force and that is why you got panicky. I haven't been smothered into something like this but I have been squashed by a very VERY big woman into something like this. I "passed out" and didn't realize it until afterwards. She was very skilled and has done this to many people. Her fetish was to crush men with her 600 lbs. Before everyone freaks and says how disgusting that is, there was nothing sexual about it. I just love to be compressed and unable to breathe. Facesitting and squashing do it for me. I am too strong for smaller women to squash me but this woman could squash anything or anyone.

The way she did it was to squash me until I started to panic slightly and then she would lift enough weight off to let me take a few breaths of air and stop the panic before settling back down. After a while, she wasn't really getting up but just lifting slightly and in the end, I was so weak that when I felt unable to breathe, I didn't react. I just layed there and she just sat there until I went out.

We were taping it and when I saw the video, I was shocked. When we started, there was a good 5 inches between her and the floor and when she fianlly made me pass out, there was only about 2 inches of me in between.

The feeling of being relaxed and not breathing without realizing I was passing out is something I dream about every night. With facesitting, I have come close but it takes so long to wear me down that I usually get a massive headache before I go out from the weight. The part I love about it which I don't get getting squashed is the woman's ass cheeks surrounding my face. THAT drives me insane with desire. :-)

Hope this helps to answer your question.

(Sorry for the really long post).

[Rich]

I love the big ladies! Wow; 600 lbs! You must have been in heaven. :p Well; almost..........huh. :)

[simon]

Quietly, just the way I'd love to go - who was this beautiful lady?

[feelfree]

Originally posted by Rich
I love the big ladies! Wow; 600 lbs! You must have been in heaven. :p Well; almost..........huh. :)

Yeah, heaven is one way to put it. *haha*

I ended up sleeping on the floor because I was in such bad shape I couldn't really move without discomfort. Not anything too bad. Just enough to remind me how helpless I was under her. She definitely could have ended my life and there would have been nothing I could have done about it. She said after the last time she lifted off of me, she sat on me for exactly 1 minute and 15 seconds (without me breathing as she had a mirror to check and see if I was still breathing).

Brain damage starts between 1:30 and 2:00 minutes so she never stays on for longer than 1:15. She told me the thing she liked about doing it was the feeling of me just going limp and totally giving way to her weight. She said she can feel all my insides like a when you squeeze a gel-pack between your fingers and she loved the feeling.

By the way, I meant to say last time, if you really want to be smothered out in a facesit, you must go with an asian woman. They are the absolute best. They are very sensual, not aggressive but relentless. Usually, they have a fantastic ass for it when they are willing to do it and believe me, they will NOT get up. You will have to lift them off you and they won't move. They will just wait for you to get tired of holding them up and then slowly drop onto your face again.

After the first time I had an asian woman facesit me, I have never been able to enjoy any other quite the same either. Keep us posted in your quest.

[Canadian Mike]

That is exactly what I am craving. Can't explain as to why. I have been facesat by many women over the past 12 years or so. I have had a large lady facesit me and I must say that I know what you mean by feeling completely encompassed in her ass. This particular lady wanted to make me pass out under her bum and like I mentioned in my earlier post, nealy did one time. I too find that when I reach that point of panic push up. Even this large lady found that she couldn't hold me down. Then that one sitting I sort of became disorientated. She commented on how I caressed her ass, when I couldn't recall even lifting my hands up. She climbed off at the two minute mark. I could breath a little under there, but obviously not enough.

So what would be your advice in instructing a lady on how smother me out in a sensual way like you describe? Also Asian ladies huh, know of any in Ontario Canada :-)

Thanks for the great response

Mike

[feelfree]

Advice? Well, first thing I would say is that you just have to find the right girl. The best way to describe her is "the look"

Some women are aggressive, arrogant and loud, others just overact the part. The one I look for is the quiet one who has "chosen me," has already been looking at me and when I make eye contact, I can't help but turn away. These days, they are all asian (Japanese and Thai mostly with a few Chinese - Cantonese thrown in). I always approach with complete confidence and behave like I am the coolest, best looking guy who will worship the ground she walks on without appearing like a wimp. Not always easy.

What makes her the right girl?

Just how she "chose me," she had decided before I even looked at her that I was going to be hers. Just the same, she will do with me as she pleases.

How does the facesitting and smothering come about?

Easy. Practice the art of cunnilingus until you can wag your tongue for an hour without stopping. Learn to caress a woman's vagina with your lips as if they were your fingertips and last but not least, when you have normal sex, make sure you rock her world when you go down on her. Once you have achieved the last thing, they will want more and more. The more they want, the longer they stay, the longer they stay, the more excited they get, the more excited they get, the more they pull you into them and press down on you and then my friend, that is when you start to mention how you "couldn't breathe last time <asian girl's name here> when you were on my face. But I didn't care, I didn't want to stop. Maybe next time, I will go to sleep like that or pass out. I don't care though, I loved every second of it. Especially since you were enjoying it so much <asian girl's name here>."

Mind you, none of this is under the pretext of a D/s relationship, squashing, smothering or anything fetish related. If they think you are into that, they are gone in a heartbeat unless they've fallen in love with you. If that happens, they will do anything you ask of them to please you.

Honestly, the main thing is, if you aren't paying for it, you have to be cool about it and be really really good at cunnilingus. Use all the senses to please her. Hot breath on her legs, a gentle suck a long moist lick from the bottom of her vagina to the top ... when I go down, I go to town, book a room and stay awhile. *hahaha* Don't just eat her out. Make love to her with your lips, tongue and mouth. Before you know it, she will be climbing on your face and expecting an hour of uninterrupted service at a minimum and since she will get tired of holding herself up .... Oh yeah, one other last thing. Whenever she takes a rest or puts weight on your face, make sure she knows that turns you on and that you like it.

The one that almost put me out said she realized what was going on but since she loved how I felt under her ass after she came and I always moaned with delight when she would sit full weight, she just decided not to move until I couldn't take it anymore. She didn't want to make me pass out but thats when I told her, I would actually like that. I explained the 1:15 second rule and since she was used to my complete worship of her womanhood, she was like, OK.

Alas, I miss her now. :(

It takes a while to get there but it is worth it in the end. Trust me. As for Asian women in Ontario? I know there are some in Toronto ... :confused:

(See, this is why I don't post so much, every post turns into a book *hahaha*).

[Rich]

I think a lot of the men on death row might choose this way to die. I know I would! :)
Tell me Feel free; Did it look something like this?
I had this pic saved to disc; & really don't know where it came from. Butt this is what I thought of when I read your story about the 400 lb. woman.
:eyebrows:

[Canadian Mike]

Man I truly do enjoy your descriptive ramblings. Thank you for your advice. Could you explain more about the large lady. Is she an Asian woman and how did you manage to hook up with her? I find that my life is just far too busy to alowe me the luxuary to be able to take the time to cort such a divine woman as you so sweetly described. So I frequent the ladies who charge for such a divine service. I have had so many fabulous experiences under the worlds most amazing bottoms. As mentioned, one or two of these ladies has even shown an interest in making me pass out beneath her bum.

Sorry, another question, if you do mind. I get the impression that you somehow will yourself to go to sleep beneath your patient facesitting goddesses. How do you do this? I ask this because no matter how much I will myself to remain calm, fear always seems to creep into my mind and body and I struggle. Sonia Fernandez does your kind of suffocation, and she told me that I must trust the sitter before I can experience the desire that I crave so much. In the end of my session with her, I swear that she was working me into that peaceful state that you speak of. Unofrtunately for me, I orgasmed and reality hastily returned.

Again I thank you for your great responses and going by the number of hits to this topic I think that it is well liked by many.

CM

[feelfree]

Rich,

Patty of Queen Adrena is shorter and less "solid" than the woman I speak of. Also, I was laying on the floor and she sat on my chest side saddle. Still, I am sure she can take care of many guys with her size. I just happen to be able to take a lot (not my words). :)

CM,

First, the BBW was not Asian. She has this thing about squashing people. She says she just loves to feel people going flat under her weight and struggle. If I panic, she would have to get up so she learned to keep it at a happy medium.

Imagine if you will, being covered from neck to knee by an unbearable weight that doesn't allow you even a sip of air. The warmth and softness of something so overwhelming that the idea of escape is impossible. After 3 or 4 hours, my body was like jelly and my strength sapped because of the constant struggle for air. I couldn't move and I couldn't struggle. I started to feel surreal, like things were happening around me and not to me. I began to feel like I was watching what was happening to me rather than feeling it happen to me. I just wanted to sleep I was so tired and when she knew she had me like that, she stayed longer and longer until I just went to sleep and she felt my body collapse under her weight.

I have a lot of stamina so it always takes a long long time to get me to that point. It's also why it took someone so extreme. I don't know how my ribs didn't crack. She is not a dominatrix or wish to give pain so that is why she has perfected it to an art of how to completely flatten a person without hurting them. She is larger than life at 6' 5" and if she really wanted to, you wouldn't be able to get her off you no matter how much you panic. You need a good amount of strength to move that much weight around all the time.

Anyway, she is a sweetheart with this one fetish which I just so happen to be lucky enough to fit right in with. Unfortunately, this too is a well run dry and we have moved too far apart to enjoy those pleasures anymore.

The face sitter I spoke of was Asian. The thing about her was that she was even more patient than I was. I didn't will myself to sleep, she just wouldn't get up until I was almost out. We never did get to pass me out but we both knew that is where it was going. I have to be worn down and exhausted to a point where reacting is not an option. This Asian woman (which by the way if you haven't noticed, I am wild about Asians) was something special. She was dominant but not a dominatrix. She also loved to be orally served.

She would just push me down and plant herself on my face; softly. she also didn't want anything to disturb her pleasure so she too was very adept at balancing her unyielding smother with not staying so long to make me panic. With her though, the chance for air was very short in between her ass cheeks. Her favorite position was have me lay down with my head on a chair so she could sit on my face and put her feet on my thighs. She had a heavenly bottom which I swear was made for face sitting. When she would sit, her cheeks would cover my face almost down to my ears yet was not flabby or hard.

Since I have so much stamina, I lasted for hours and hours like this and always ended with a HUGE headache but I loved it every second of it.

The trick is no trick at all. I love to go down on a woman, especially Asian women and it just happens naturally once they get the idea that I want to stay there all the time. I would rather do that then have conventional sex. There is just something about them when they are very feminine that they just love to lose themselves in the rapture of sex. When they love to be orally pleased, they will stay there as long as you can take it and then some.

If you can find an Asian professional, I am sure you will not be disappointed. Just make sure that they are feminine, have a nice deep bottom and not too straight laced. Dominatrix is OK but just dominant is better. The trick is a long long session with constant face sitting. Let yourself get exhausted by it and you will see it will happen naturally. If you try to rush to the promised land, you'll never get there.

Next time, I will write a separate thread with another face sitting experience I had for you. The first time I almost passed out under bondage; Japanese girl.

Take care and good luck.

FF

[MARTIN 8812]

I HAVE PASSED OUT . . . TWO GIRLS I PAID TO HANDCUFF ME AND FACE SIT ME SAT ON MY FACE SUPPOSEDLY FOR 30 MINUTES . . . I HAD PASSED OUTCOLD UNDER THE FIRST GIRL SHE REMAINED SEATED WHILE THE OTHER GIRL SAT ON MY CHEST. BEFORE PASSING OUT I PANICKED BUT THE GIRLS DIDNT CARE AND REMAINED SEATED ON MY FACE. I COULD HEAR THEM GIGGLING BEFORE I PASSED OUT . . . THAT EXPIRENCE WAS VERY SCARY SINCE THE GIRLS AGES 19 AND 20 COULDNT CARELESS IF THEY SUFFERCATED ME OR NOT . . . I WONT DO THAT AGAIN

[MARTIN 8812]

I HAVE PASSED OUT . . . TWO GIRLS I PAID TO HANDCUFF ME AND FACE SIT ME SAT ON MY FACE SUPPOSEDLY FOR 30 MINUTES . . . I HAD PASSED OUTCOLD UNDER THE FIRST GIRL SHE REMAINED SEATED WHILE THE OTHER GIRL SAT ON MY CHEST. BEFORE PASSING OUT I PANICKED BUT THE GIRLS DIDNT CARE AND REMAINED SEATED ON MY FACE. I COULD HEAR THEM GIGGLING BEFORE I PASSED OUT . . . THAT EXPIRENCE WAS VERY SCARY SINCE THE GIRLS AGES 19 AND 20 COULDNT CARELESS IF THEY SUFFERCATED ME OR NOT . . . I WONT DO THAT AGAIN

[MARTIN 8812]

I HAVE PASSED OUT . . . TWO GIRLS I PAID TO HANDCUFF ME AND FACE SIT ME SAT ON MY FACE SUPPOSEDLY FOR 30 MINUTES . . . I HAD PASSED OUTCOLD UNDER THE FIRST GIRL SHE REMAINED SEATED WHILE THE OTHER GIRL SAT ON MY CHEST. BEFORE PASSING OUT I PANICKED BUT THE GIRLS DIDNT CARE AND REMAINED SEATED ON MY FACE. I COULD HEAR THEM GIGGLING BEFORE I PASSED OUT . . . THAT EXPIRENCE WAS VERY SCARY SINCE THE GIRLS AGES 19 AND 20 COULDNT CARELESS IF THEY SUFFERCATED ME OR NOT . . . I WONT DO THAT AGAIN