first meeting face ridding

[Decima]

If you met a girl for the first time, your making out everything is going well. You go down on her and the next thing you know she has you pinned down and is riding you face. Do you think she is easy after?

[DU007]

Hi, Decima...good to see you here in the Facesitting place...:D


To answer your question...

For me, no way...Thinking about a women as 'easy', or not, just isn't in my mindset....its not how I think about women - ever.

...I only think in terms of 'chemistry' and 'compatibility' - that blend between two people - on several levels - that draws them together - and holds them there - or not.

I like Dominant, strong women. I find a woman that knows her mind - and is prepared to act on it - has a really erotic effect on me. I like that, and I respect that.

Its interesting, because I'm a strong man in life - I'm independent and clear-thinking, in control of myself, capable....Yet, I admire, respect....love and need....a strong woman that can make me want to be taken down.


Whether the first time we clap eyes on each other....or several dates later....that sexual action happens, is irrelevant to my attitude to her. Its the 'chemistry/compatibility' that drives it for me.....and the respect and warmth that comes out of that.


And, I have to say....If part of her knowing her own mind is to ride my face to hell, and back - first night, or whenever - then that's all the better....:D

[sinbad]

If she facesat me on the first date, I'd ask her to marry me. No, not really, but I would definately think she's my type of girl, and continue to date her.

[CT face smother lover]

Originally posted by Decima
If you met a girl for the first time, your making out everything is going well. You go down on her and the next thing you know she has you pinned down and is riding you face. Do you think she is easy after?

Doing anything tonight? ;)

[CT face smother lover]

Originally posted by Decima
If you met a girl for the first time, your making out everything is going well. You go down on her and the next thing you know she has you pinned down and is riding you face. Do you think she is easy after?

Doing anything tonight? ;)

[Decima]

Thanks guys I was having a little bit of a guilty feeling. Which I am over as I am single and can do what ever the hell I like hehe

The only bad thing would be if he tells the boys about my kinky habits, I would never hear the end of it!

CT face smother lover: hey how you doing ;) lol

[CT face smother lover]

Let me put it this way, if we went out and you pushed me on my back and rode my face into the bed for the next week, you wouldn't hear a complaint out of me.

[DU007]

Hey, Decima...


Be good if you visited us face seats a bit more often...Love to hear your thoughts...:D

[CT face smother lover]

Originally posted by Decima
Thanks guys I was having a little bit of a guilty feeling. Which I am over as I am single and can do what ever the hell I like hehe

The only bad thing would be if he tells the boys about my kinky habits, I would never hear the end of it!

CT face smother lover: hey how you doing ;) lol

and don't feel guilty, there are men (like me) who enjoy being face-riden as much as you enjoy doing it ;)

[corona4007]

Originally posted by Decima
If you met a girl for the first time, your making out everything is going well. You go down on her and the next thing you know she has you pinned down and is riding you face. Do you think she is easy after?

well 'goin down' is my thing so I guess this would have to be a real bonus having your face ridden at the same time;) .......I have also cum to learn NOTHIN is ever easy.......

[tonguester]

If it happened to me on a new date, I'd think all my birthdays had arrived on one day!

I am lucky though. My wife likes me to go down on her (what girl doesn't?), but more than that, she likes the power and the ability to tease me.

What turns my wife on is how excited I become and having me under her control. Mind you, it has taken years of communication and trust-building to reach this stage in our relationship. In return for some face riding fun, she gets my undivided attention on her pussy and lots and lots of orgasms.

I sometimes wish she would be more dominant, but I'm working on it! I know there's a sadistic streak in there somewhere.

Tonguester

[Decima]

Lol there was lots going on that I haven’t mentioned.

I more frequently indulge in men going down on me that I do foot worship and trample. I just find it a lot more difficult to talk about. I get a little shy about this kind of thing that’s why you don’t see me on the smother section so much.

I am not shy when it comes to the bedroom. I don’t really know what to say about encouraging women to be more dominant. Making guys go down has all ways been something I have achieved easily. I am very passionate and love the control of it. Hmmm I like to argue that all ways makes me horny, so maybe if you push their buttons a little in a cheeky playful way that helps.

[Footpath]

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Originally posted by Decima
If you met a girl for the first time, your making out everything is going well. You go down on her and the next thing you know she has you pinned down and is riding you face. Do you think she is easy after?
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Hi Decima,
Not easy...confident...one who knows what she wants and needs and goes for it without any appologies necessary.

It has never happenend to me...close but not the full ride. :cry:

If God's flashlight shined down on me tonight; granting me (us) such a reward, I probably would feel like I just died and went to heaven!

What a way to serve! ;)

[DU007]

Originally posted by Decima
Lol there was lots going on that I haven’t mentioned.

I more frequently indulge in men going down on me that I do foot worship and trample. I just find it a lot more difficult to talk about.

I get a little shy about this kind of thing that’s why you don’t see me on the smother section so much.

That's interesting, Decima...

I guess facesitting - and oral sex - IS more intimate than, say, foot worship & trample...more personal...from a woman's pov......I, for one, can understand a certain shyness to talk about it.


Perhaps, what all men that enjoy facesitting crave is to understand, as much as possible, the female mind in this regard....Sure, the physical aspect of it is always very exciting for us - in whatever position, or form, that takes - but her attitude is intensely erotic for us...


If I could ask you a question, for example...?

From your pov, as a sexually dominant woman (and assuming a strong attraction, or relationship, is in place) how do you respond to a man that resists, say, your desire that he go down on you, or your desire to sit on his face for your own gratification...?

Does that have the effect of turning you off...?...Or, does it make you more determined to get your own way with him in this...?


I guess what I'm asking here, Decima, is what may you be prepared to do, to get your own way...?...Would you simply insist - whether he wants to, or not...?...Might it involve physical coercion of some kind to overcome his reluctance, for example...?...Or, other forms of coercion...?...Work on your persuasion....?....Or, would you just walk away because he is insufficiently sexually submissive to you...?


I'm fascinated by - and love - the dominant female instinct...and how she expresses it, in its many forms.

Any thoughts would be appreciated...:D

[sinbad]

Hi Decima,
As long as you trust this guy, you shouldn't have to worry about his discreetness. Coming from someone who enjoys
footfetish/facesitting etc.... I worry about whom the girl would tell if I didn't know her very well. So I see where your coming from on that issue. But then again, in your case, if he told his friends you may have all his friends wanting to date you also. ;)
Take care, and good luck in the single world. I dealt with it off and on for years, and will probably have to deal with it again someday.
sinbad