Great dating profile from a dominant woman

[face4wife2sit]

This is a perfect example of what a dominant woman really wants when she is looking for a submissive man.


I am looking for a long-term partner for a relationship not just based on D/S but with vanilla aspects.

I am ready to meet a well-educated, successful, single, submissive who adores me because I am dominant. I want to be pampered at all times without asking. That means foot massages, baths, flowers, shoes (lots and lots of shoes!), or whatever else makes me smile.

You will learn to anticipate my every desire.

Please be local. How can you serve me from cyberland? Online collars are cute, but won't give me what I need. Please be a non-smoker and disease/drug-free.

Sissification does not turn me on.

You and I are a good match if you are a smart and masculine man. You see, when I enter your mind, I want to enter a mind of substance.

I require someone who is creative and resourceful and who does not need me to give him one-page instructions on the simplest matters.

I want a man who is Alpha in all of his relationships except when it comes to me.

Obedience and the desire to please me in ways other than sex must be paramount.

You will do whatever it takes to pamper me, make my life easier and make me happy. That may include grocery food shopping, chauffeur service etc. You will serve me with all you have. Your constant thought will be how to serve me better than the last time.

I love an intelligent sub and I value great conversation. I expect our interaction to be normal when we are around others and I expect to be able to enjoy vanilla experiences with you, such as the theater, museums and dancing. As we bond, my will and desire will become yours.

If you are a dominant who is sincere about submitting to a dominant woman, I'm open. Please don't contact me to try to turn me sub. Don't contact me for a sexual experience with a kinky, strong woman. That's not going to happen.

Only contact me if you are looking to serve long term.

A lot of men begin in the lifestyle as dominants because that is what is expected culturally. However, some are introspective enough to realize that they get more satisfaction when they cater to their submissive side. If I am speaking to your soul right this minute, let me know.

If you are a masculine submissive, who is not feminine or interested in wearing panties and other female clothing, perfect!

In public, you will be my protector. You will make sure my every need is met wherever we go. When we are alone, you will kneel before me and await my desire.

Be honest with yourself as to whether you are able to be in a submissive relationship and deny your dominant side.

If I've piqued your curiousity, let's talk. I will only reply to emails that include a picture

[equidum]

Based on past experience, I believe that the tricky point will be for the slave to be able to switch, whenever requested, from slavery to "normal interaction" and back to slavery. These trips into normal, free lifestyle are real slavery-killers, at least, that's what they were for me .....

Apart from that, I LOVE the requirements of this great lady !!!

[gemeyildiz]

This sounds perfect. To be honest with you this is bang on exactly what I look for in a woman. Or rather what I want to give to a woman.

But would a sub who is in a vanilla relationship with a woman who has no idea about domination, be living this lifestyle anyway..... of course other than the getting on your knees part etc...

But she would soon figure it out, you cant hide it if your a sub. A good woman that understands you will know.

[Goldman]

It's not fair to say this is what dominant women want, im sure some do, but not everyone likes the same things. Just like all subs don't want the exact same relationship paradigm.

For me this kind of relationship would not work. Im looking to be equals in all areas of the relationship, except for the intimate times.

The requirements above seem unfair and unrealistic to me. Im surprised that anyone would actually want to be a full time slave in a long term situation. Well not suprised, nothing suprises me anymore lol.

[face4wife2sit]

You'd be surprised, Goldman. There are more dominant women today than one might think, and the idea of having a slave husband is no longer weird or a joke.

Couples work out what they are comfortable with together. That being said, the dominant women I met tend to want to stretch their subs limits. They often win.