fall out of love,,,

[sgobeer]

Hi A/all,

i am writing this to help myself get past a previous relationship... all be it selfish reason, to get to new relationships. D/s relationships is all i know, i am a slave/sub who believes in Female Superiority.

i meant this wonderful Woman as a Dominatrix, She had me so twisted around Her little finger by the end of O/our first meeting, W/we both knew i was hooked! i was with Her for over 6 years. W/we shared much or ourselves but in hind sight, She was more guarded than i thought at the time. She retired as a Dominatrix but W/we continued see each other and communicating openly. This continued for about a year and then nothing. No more returned emails or phone calls.

i told Her i loved Her many times. She did not return the statement and i understand She did not have to, as She was in control of this relationship. However i still find it difficult to stop loving Her. i have tried to see other Women but i keep hoping to find the same connection i once had, i guess that is my problem. i need to let my other relationships mature naturally. i some how have to get Her out for my head.
How does one do that? Any comments or suggestions?

Well thank You for read!

steve

[macrina]

Time heels all pain my friend, you get over it. Iam sure you will find a other girl.

[sinbad]

I feel for you my friend. I think the worst response is no response. It drives you nuts wondering if you did something wrong, or what her thoughts are about you etc....
macrina is correct time will heal. Some heal faster than others. I'm a fairly slow healer, but I know others that are out and about a week after a 5 year relationship It is hard to love, or find another when thoughts of your previous lover is always on your mind. Get out, meet people. It will help you close this book and open another faster, but only you will know when your ready make another committment. As far a finding them....hell man...95% of this board has that dilemma I'm afraid.