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suffocated1
02-17-2005, 6:48 AM
I've got a problem guys, and wondered if anyone had any ideas. A few weeks ago I plucked up courage to ask my black girlfriend if she'd facesit me. She was a bit cautious to start with, especially with the tying up part. Anyway she went ahead and sat squarely on my face. The only thing is she didn't think to allow me to breathe and stayed sitting there through all my struggling until I passed out. The problem is she said she really enjoyed it and wants to do it all the time. So much so as soon as I get home from work she does it, then constantly throughout the evening. Even when I wake up in the morning she's hassling me to smother and facesit me. Now, I like a facesitting session as much as the next guy, but it's getting too much. I can't go on like this. She's starting to get a bit pushy too and domineering. What can I do?

seat4women
02-17-2005, 7:25 AM
Sounds as if your dream's come true, but fantasy when acted out, is not nearly as erotic as when your only dreaming it, because you can control your fantasy but you can't control reality.
Good luck, mate.

pantyman
02-17-2005, 7:30 AM
Just relax and enjoy!! :cool:

and next time tell her you want to take some photos :eek: :D

derek_700
02-17-2005, 8:15 AM
are you kidding?

muller
02-17-2005, 8:33 AM
bloody hell, you lucky so-and-so!

My girlfriend facesat and tit smothered me (I didn't even ask for the latter but i didn't complain!) for the first time on Valentines night when she was a bit tipsy. I think it's the hardest thing to coax girls into because they are self-conscious or whatever, but I couldn't think of anything better than the situation you've got!!

just tell her to not be so heavy with it and let you breathe every now and then as she may end up killing you if she carries on! a simple tap on the leg or something should be suffice. Let us know how you get on you lucky beggar!!!

humanchair
02-17-2005, 8:50 AM
you are way too lucky.... you've got to be joking?

poostick669
02-17-2005, 9:03 AM
seriously.... sounds great! If a girl would demand it, it would be so much more hot, than if you had to ask for it....

LV2GDWN
02-17-2005, 11:34 AM
Congratulations! You have opened up "Pandora's Box"
& have created a monster.

My wife has reacted in the same manner as your
girlfriend. After 22 years of marriage. Every free
moment I have when she gets home from work is
spent serving as her seat.

For the last 2 years since she had foot surgery,
(Check out my past post "BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU
WISH FOR - Part 3" for that part of my life.)

This is how my day goes;

4:30pm, she arrives home from work;
I am required to be in my spot, which is lying on
the sofa face up.

4:45pm, she's in her spot, on my face.
She'll get up every now & then to fix herself
something to eat or put a load of clothes in the wash.

I have to eat & do whatever I have to do before she
gets home so she has unlimited access to my face
until I go to work at 9:00pm.

At 6:00am, after bathing, she wakes me up by sitting
on me while she dresses for work & eats breakfast.

7:30am, she's gone to work & I have peace until 4:30pm
when it starts all over again.

I was like you at first, it was too much. Butt I realized
that I'd rather have too much facesitting than not enough
or none at all. And I get off on the fact that she really
enjoys sitting on my face. I’m in heaven.

I'm not too much into smothering until I'm passed out,
but I do like to be smothered. She's more into the sitting
than the smothering. She usually will smother me to get
me off fast when she’s done using me as her cushion.

Be careful with the passing out because of your girlfriends
inexperience. She could accidentally kill you.

Enjoy yourself! Your living a life most men on this board
would die for.

You have no problem I can see except the passing out part.

BE CAREFULL, YOU LUCKY DOG! PEACE
:machine: :2guns: :theband: :soldier: :shooter:

Muffdiver
02-17-2005, 12:48 PM
I had a conversation wiyh a lady friend of mine t'other night over a glass or three of Red. We got onto what turns us on, and semi jokingly, I said you, in your mini skirt and red panties, sitting full weight on my face. Her reply was not as expected, like a brush off. No, all she said was "Oh we'll have to work out some kinda signal so that I know when to let you breathe when we do that!!" I now wait for her to sms me when she is in the mood!! And no Downunder 007, this is NOT the same lass as I talked about before!! I am amazed at the prospect of this happening, but I actually believe she will do it.

dragonslair39
02-17-2005, 1:20 PM
Ok buddy this is what you do, call me and go to work I'll take care of the rest. :p

DU007
02-17-2005, 5:51 PM
suffocated 1....I guess one reason you're with her is cos you like a strong lady...?...Well, here she is...and hooking into your fetish, too...:) ...I say, agree some rules with her about sitting, so you can breathe, and maybe some time off for you, too...(smile) etc...then... just love her, man....and love it, too...:)

LV2GDWN....That's beautiful....a little too much for me, maybe...but, god, I DO like a lady WANTING to do this...!!

Oh, and, LV2GDWN....What happens on WEEKENDS...??

Muffdiver, you old bugger...still trying to sniff every girl's knickers in WA., eh....:D....This one sounds wonderful...!!...Mini skirt, red panties....AND a great attitude...heaven on a stick, mate...!!

dragonslair39....got it in one, I reckin...!!...:D

CT face smother lover
02-17-2005, 5:57 PM
if you ever break up, please give her my number!

Viewmaster
02-18-2005, 4:11 AM
Let her enslave you, but introduce her to breast smothering as well!

suffocated1
02-18-2005, 6:22 AM
I was worried because it's rather like it's not my fantasy any more. It's actually become her's and she's getting very insistant. I was never really into ass worship, just fs, but now she makes me do all sorts to her. Well, her using me like that is only half the problem. We're going to live in her home country Kenya soon and she's intimated she'd like to share me with her sister. I've spoken to sis on the phone and she keeps on saying things like, "I am looking forward to meeting my brother-in-law and I want to do the things Lydia does". It's ok in fantasy but this whole thing is taking over. Thanks for all the support and I'll keep you posted.

smother_sub
02-18-2005, 6:53 AM
if there's a problem with it, lets just trade, i'll be her bf and go back with her and her sister. i got no problem with getting it all the time

aslik
02-18-2005, 1:21 PM
Guy, no offence but this sounds like BS to me.

I'm only saying that because it sounds way too unbelievable. If you don't like what she is doing then tell her so. If she is forcing you into doing it then split up!

But, as I said, I smell BS.

dragonslair39
02-18-2005, 1:40 PM
You know aslik is right, I was with you until you threw in the sister thing in. If you wanted to write a story, then do so but please do not bullshit us, we have pretty much read it all around here.

BrothaCore
02-18-2005, 5:14 PM
Suffocated1,

Sir, normally I pride myself on being cordial on message boards, but I'm going to break with that tradition by saying that this is THE STUPIDEST post that I have ever read!

This is equivalent of asking "How do I stop people from giving me free money?" or "How can I get my landlord to stop giving me heat in the dead of winter?" As many people (myself included) as there are who wish to have a female willing to indulge their interests (facesitting or otherwise) is almost sinful for you to be complaining.

So either be quiet and count your blessings, politely end the relationship or if the whole post was fiction, keep these things to yourself in the future.

:mad:,
BrothaCore

motuman
02-18-2005, 5:46 PM
Suffocated1,

I've got to agree with several of the posts here and say .......... "Wanna trade???"

I too have a lovely black girlfriend who was quite reluctant to facesit full-weight and at first it created some problems. Then she got used to it but it took a fair bit of effort. Even now, it is something I have to ask for no matter how many times I tell her please OFFER it. I would love to be in your situation.

Seriously, I think the best advice is very similar to what was stated above, be willing to be the seat but set some ground rules like allowing you to breath when you signal. IF she doesn't follow the ground rules, then no facesitting. Maybe after a certain amount of time of her sitting on you, then it's her turn to do something in particular that you like. Meet halfway ............

But in the meantime ........... damn ............ I am one very envious man. Her sister too???? Damn.

Motuman

CT face smother lover
02-18-2005, 8:02 PM
I don't think this is a serious thread, but in the off chance it is, if you want out, I want in!

suffocated1
02-19-2005, 1:19 AM
Well, if you don't know anything about African ladies I will enlighten you. In some tribes the women do share their men, especially white guys. Conversely if I was to become an African citizen I could have 100 wives. My girlfriend has 6 sisters and 3 brothers scattered around Kenya. The sister I've spoken to is in Nairobi where we are going to live. I know this is hard to understand but when a fantasy becomes reality it changes the whole ethos, especially when you're not the one in control. Anyway, I'll let you know how it goes.

Viewmaster
02-19-2005, 10:34 AM
If you die, suffocated1, you'll be our patron saint of facesitting.

Cheek2Cheek
02-19-2005, 11:03 AM
"In some tribes the women do share their men, especially white guys. Conversely if I was to become an African citizen I could have 100 wives".

Dude, you are so full of shit your breath stinks. And where do you get this crap about Africans? From a comic book? Are we talking about the same continent that practices female circumcision? This is borderline racist tripe.
And how exactly does she "force" you to do anything? Does she physically overpower you? You must be a pretty small guy. Besides, that's also called "sexual assault" and it's a crime. Otherwise, what's stopping you from just saying NO and/or leaving? And for someone who is so traumatized by this, you're awfully eager to share it with complete strangers and "keep us posted". Unusual behavior for a victim of sexual assault.
Enjoy your fantasy, but stop bullshitting us that it's real. Not that you're be the first on this board to do so....

CT face smother lover
02-19-2005, 11:26 AM
Originally posted by Cheek2Cheek
"In some tribes the women do share their men, especially white guys. Conversely if I was to become an African citizen I could have 100 wives".

Dude, you are so full of shit your breath stinks. And where do you get this crap about Africans? From a comic book? Are we talking about the same continent that practices female circumcision? This is borderline racist tripe.
And how exactly does she "force" you to do anything? Does she physically overpower you? You must be a pretty small guy. Besides, that's also called "sexual assault" and it's a crime. Otherwise, what's stopping you from just saying NO and/or leaving? And for someone who is so traumatized by this, you're awfully eager to share it with complete strangers and "keep us posted". Unusual behavior for a victim of sexual assault.
Enjoy your fantasy, but stop bullshitting us that it's real. Not that you're be the first on this board to do so....

I am sure this is a joke. If it wasn't, it would be very easy to stop her from doing it, leave!

StInKyFeEt01
02-19-2005, 12:28 PM
just talk to your girlfriend and tell her your concerns. tell her your more then happy to do as she pleases but that sometimes its becoming too much...im sure she will understand and if not...you shud def leave her

E.Rotique
02-19-2005, 6:11 PM
I was kidnapped by six alien women and taken to Uranus where they kept me prisoner for 30 days and 30 nights while they forced me to lick their pussies and asses until they were satiated. I know it all sounds unbelievable Suffocated 1 but that's what it's like in Uranus. :rolleyes:

DU007
02-19-2005, 7:46 PM
Originally posted by E.Rotique
I was kidnapped by six alien women and taken to Uranus where they kept me prisoner for 30 days and 30 nights...

...'Strewth....that must've been terrible for you, mate...just a shocking experience...!!

...but think of poor suffocated 1, the poor bugger....he'll have to endure Ms Africa, plus 6 x Ms Africa sisters, plus up to 100 wives, as a communal seat-stool for the lot of them...in that well-known galaxy of far-off Africanus...:rolleyes:

Jerre
02-20-2005, 1:36 AM
Originally posted by StInKyFeEt01
just talk to your girlfriend and tell her your concerns. tell her your more then happy to do as she pleases but that sometimes its becoming too much...im sure she will understand and if not...you shud def leave her

hubbe5522
02-20-2005, 1:48 AM
Ha ha ha

this is a great thread!

dragonslair39
02-20-2005, 9:51 AM
This cat must of thought we were stupid. I wish I could live in your world.

lionhart7
02-20-2005, 2:42 PM
Dear Penthouse....

I am a student at a midwestern college. Amazing as it sounds, you won't believe what happened to me...yada yada yada...

CT face smother lover
02-20-2005, 3:24 PM
To Whom it may concern,

Please help, women find me irresistable, no matter where I am they want me, I can't take it anymore. How can I tell these women to please not ravage me and make me stick my face in their ass. Thank you.

DandyA
02-20-2005, 5:37 PM
guys ... I honestly believe him ...

some women are genuinely like that ... and I should know because we produce a new film every week ...

for instance, the Lurverley Buttercup from www.irresistiblebliss.co.uk - everytime I see her, she says with a twinkle in her eye "I haven't sat on you *yet* have I Dandy" ...

Monica from www.WrestlingMonica.com is much the same - well except she tends to grab me by my sticky out ears and just drag me into a private room for her pleaseure ...

And that's just for starters ... there's also ...

Lucy from www.Lucy-Gresty.co.uk
Gilly from www.GillySillyHouse.com
Autumn from www.Autumn-Angel.co.uk
Rebekah from www.RebekahDee.com
Jessie from www.JessieModel.co.uk
Elizabeth from www.ElizabethMichelleLawrence.com
Natasha from www.NatashaHimpson.co.uk
FlameDragan from www.FlameDragan.com

As well as many others without websites !

Having all these women prepared and eager to sit on your face may seem like a dream to some ... but if you want to watch the final of the UK Masters snooker tournament (for instnce) it can be a nightmare !

Or, of course, if you just want to watch the pigs flying over your house ;)

BTW ... do I win a prize for the most number of plugs for facesitting girls own websites in a single posting? Just hope I haven't missed anyone out or I'll be in BIG trouble !

so96853
02-20-2005, 6:08 PM
blah blah blah blah...

My gf and all 6 sis wont stop facesitting me, help help, what should i do? They all have perfect asses and I'm tired of it.

I'm so sick and tired of all this facesitting that I come to this board when I'm done...

What do you get out of a story like this?

Rich
02-21-2005, 1:57 AM
Originally posted by so96853
What do you get out of a story like this?

Mmmmmmmmmm let me think. What could he get out of a story like that? :lildog:

I'm guessing the same thing we all get out of stories like that.
Who would of thunk it? Someone cums on to a site like this and tells us all a story like that! :eek:

suffocated1............True or false, please don't stop sharing your stories because a few blah blah's haven't learned to be civil to fellow face sitting friends.

hubbe5522
02-21-2005, 4:27 AM
I agree.. Don't stop sharing the stories..

Btw, why do people feel offended? I think it's great for laughs.

icantbreath3
02-21-2005, 5:14 AM
It looks like some of the blokes here are giving you a hard time. Oh ye of little faith. I actually believe you suffocated1. Why? Because I live in Nairobi with my wife who comes from the Kikuyu tribe and she’s really into facesitting and smothering big time. We’ve lived here for two years and it happens to be part of the culture for black women to share a good man (usually white) with a sibling. (I don’t know where the racist accusation comes into the equation). What happens is European men meet a woman on holiday, court them, sometimes promise they’ll marry them then bugger off home. They stay in contact, even send money, but there’s no physical contact. It also happens when African men go abroad to find work and it’s the same thing. I think the women like the feeling of power, something they’ve never experienced before. So sitting on their partner’s face and suffocating them is a new and wonderful experience. My wife does it a lot, and so does her sister. She’s not as pretty as my wife but it helps to keep everyone happy. Not that I could do much about it anyway even if I didn’t like it. They can be very persuasive these African women. What I’d suggest is to keep it to a certain time of day and that way it doesn’t completely take over. I know when you love someone you can let them get away with murder, but too much smothering ain’t good for you. Maybe it’s too much for you because she’s only just got turned on by it. It’ll probably settle down naturally like it has with me after a while. Keep in touch when you come over and maybe we can start up a facesitting club or something. Good luck.

dragonslair39
02-21-2005, 6:03 AM
Great now we have two members living in the Land of Make Believe. :mad:

underyu2001
02-21-2005, 7:16 AM
i say u ask her to put the heels on :) or bite her ass when uve had enuff..lol

rugman
02-21-2005, 9:18 AM
Now, I know this is none of my business, being from the wrong side of the tracks and all, but I just have to post a response.

Except for some of the harsher replies, I’ve enjoyed this thread. And I have to tell you (suffocated1), if you were to change the description of your situation to reflect my chosen “sport” and posted your comment in my neighborhood you’d be instantly famous.

Either way, if she wants to keep you around, she’d probably listen to your concerns and adapt to them (to some extent). You are presented with the opportunity to have all you want. The flipside to that is that you need to pony up the brass to call “time out” when you really need it.

Technical question for all: Having only a passing familiarity with the subject at hand, it seems strange that a face-sat guy would be vulnerable to involuntary suffocation. Can’t he just lift the Lady off? Granted, the angle for using one’s arms is all wrong (awkward) but it would seem to me that any guy with the minimum of upper body strength ought to be able to prevent full-on suffocation. Or am I missing something here?

headpop
02-21-2005, 10:45 AM
Me too.. :) Imagine there's a guy out there with a lady who won't stop sitting on his face. My God... there is a heaven.

domino55
02-21-2005, 2:45 PM
Kenrug,

I have genuinely been pinned down and facesat by a woman.

I don' think it is always possible to lift them off.

But if there horny who cares.

rugman
02-21-2005, 2:53 PM
Originally posted by domino55
But if there horny who cares. Heh heh. Understood. :D

John
02-21-2005, 3:10 PM
Originally posted by icantbreath3
It looks like some of the blokes here are giving you a hard time. Oh ye of little faith. I actually believe you suffocated1. Why? Because I live in Nairobi with my wife who comes from the Kikuyu tribe and she’s really into facesitting and smothering big time. We’ve lived here for two years and it happens to be part of the culture for black women to share a good man (usually white) with a sibling. (I don’t know where the racist accusation comes into the equation). What happens is European men meet a woman on holiday, court them, sometimes promise they’ll marry them then bugger off home. They stay in contact, even send money, but there’s no physical contact. It also happens when African men go abroad to find work and it’s the same thing. I think the women like the feeling of power, something they’ve never experienced before. So sitting on their partner’s face and suffocating them is a new and wonderful experience. My wife does it a lot, and so does her sister. She’s not as pretty as my wife but it helps to keep everyone happy. Not that I could do much about it anyway even if I didn’t like it. They can be very persuasive these African women. What I’d suggest is to keep it to a certain time of day and that way it doesn’t completely take over. I know when you love someone you can let them get away with murder, but too much smothering ain’t good for you. Maybe it’s too much for you because she’s only just got turned on by it. It’ll probably settle down naturally like it has with me after a while. Keep in touch when you come over and maybe we can start up a facesitting club or something. Good luck.

Not that most of us really care all that much, because entertainment is entertainment...

But is there some reason you're talking to yourself?

nathan
02-21-2005, 3:17 PM
LMAO

That was entertaining. :D

so96853
02-21-2005, 6:51 PM
I don't think it's offending neither do I feel offended.

I just think it's interesting that he's sick and tired of all the facesitting that won't stop, or he can't make stop, and then comes here to ask for advice.

suffocated1
02-22-2005, 7:40 AM
Thanks for those kind words of wisdom icantbreath3, and I'll certainly take you up on your offer. I've emailed you privately. Apologies for not being here for a while. Lydia looked on my pc and found out I'd openly asked for help. She went ape-shit, phoned up my work and said I had flu. Then she took the phone off the hook and tied me naked to the bed. Now I'm late 50's and she's 40 and bigger and stronger than me, and she's like most women when they want something, nothing could have stopped her or changed her mind. So she facesat me for the best part of the entire day yesterday, breaking off only for snacks, loo, and changing tv channels. Her smothering became quite intensive at one stage, but luckily she's eased off the blacking out stage. She allowed me to have a meal, but the only thing is I had to eat it off her arse which seemed to turn her on even more. Then the facesitting continued on into the night, followed by arse and fanny worship. She only stopped when she became tired and fell asleep. Then she continued to squat on my face for the best part of this morning. My face just stank of bottom and her juices. Luckily she's gone out to see a friend. Christ knows what'll happen if she finds out I've been on the pc again. I'll make sure I'll delete history etc. Got to go.

John
02-22-2005, 7:44 AM
Hey John....is there some reason you are sooooo brilliant, cool, handsome, rich and have a giant dick? Please tell me how to be like you.

Sincerely,

John

John
02-22-2005, 7:46 AM
Hey, thanks for the question, John...

In answer, I can only say it's because I've been blessed by God. You can't be like me because only those truly worthy can reach the true perfection that is me.

With regret,

John

nathan
02-22-2005, 2:14 PM
LMFAO!

I just can't believe the game continued after he was called on it...

I wonder how sending a private email to yourself works here...probably about as well as sending a P.M. to yourself? :rolleyes:

bobbo008
02-22-2005, 3:20 PM
if this isnt a joke, check my profile, she can contact me there and we'll be able to send her over to Wisconsin soon!

DU007
02-22-2005, 3:24 PM
Originally posted by John
But is there some reason you're talking to yourself?

...'cos he likes to know who he's talking to...?....:rolleyes:

A mirror would do, suffocated1...

suffocated1
02-22-2005, 11:19 PM
Well, if it isn't the kettle calling the pot black.

Artistic licence is a wonderful thing. And so is hypocrisy. We all pretend to be something we're not. Isn't that right, JIM, er, I mean JOHN.

Bye, bye. :kissbutt: :kissbutt: :kissbutt:

dragonslair39
02-23-2005, 1:15 PM
This dude is so full of shit, hey numbnut arse and fanny is the same thing. :kissbutt:

John
02-23-2005, 3:54 PM
Originally posted by suffocated1
Well, if it isn't the kettle calling the pot black.

Artistic licence is a wonderful thing. And so is hypocrisy. We all pretend to be something we're not. Isn't that right, JIM, er, I mean JOHN.

Bye, bye. :kissbutt: :kissbutt: :kissbutt:

LMAO...

I had no problem with the obviously phony question...THAT is art...

However, adults that communicate together expect at least a DEGREE of integrity in how they present things.

For example, The Fetish Brazil guys are pretty bad spammers of the forum., ie they NEVER enter into any discussion that is not about them. They are here for one reason only, and that is to promote their websites. Fine, we all live with that because they post some of their pics for free. No harm done.

Where I would draw the line, however, is for Fetish Brazil to create several identities and talk back and forth about the product between these identities as if it were real. If we all talked to each other not as individual entities, but rather as multiple personalities, we'd have no REAL basis for communication at all. It doesn't matter if you call yourself, Bill, Ted, Jim, John, SuffocatedIdiot, IcantBreatheWithThisCockInMyMouth, GodRache, or whatever you want....but try being one person...

suffocated1
02-24-2005, 1:13 AM
A writer can write a story which is interesting and grabs the readers attention. That's easy. Too easy. I can write any number of smother, facesitting, femdom stories in the space of an hour or so. I can do it from her pov 3rd person, his pov 3rd person, her pov 1st person, his pov 1st person. The hardest bit of writing is to conjure up a senario. But you didn't like it, did you? I offended you little sensibilities, didn't I? Why? Because just to start off with there was a little part of you which wanted to believe it. But instead of enjoying the creativity, the non-offensive writing game you felt offended because it wasn't true and you felt betrayed. Well, let me put you straight. I'm going to tell you that Father Xmas doesn't exist and thereafter Xmas will never, ever be the same ever again.

THERE AIN'T SUCH A THING AS A WOMAN ENJOYING FACESITTING/SMOTHERING.

They may do it because they love you, like my girlfriend. BUT IT ISN'T IN THEIR MAKEUP NOR NATURE TO ENJOY DOING IT.

So next time the fog covers your eyes and pride take note. You should be encouraging writing not trying to shoot it down in flames. They'll be no more stories from me. So you can shove it.

E.Rotique
02-24-2005, 3:01 AM
Now that's what I call spitting the dummy!
Go on, oh suffocated one, throw all your toys out of the pram now. Nobody loves you, poor thing .......

:cry: :cry: :cry: :thebird: :thebird: :thebird:

DU007
02-24-2005, 4:00 AM
Suffocated1...

You laid on a deception - a fantasy, if you will...Some of us took it at face value, for a moment...Then, many saw the game, and responded with humour - others responded with irritation at the deceit...others, again, began to unpick the threads of it...

The acid test of such a game - based as it was on drawing others into a fantasy - is how your readers react when all is revealed - if it is revealed...

The mark of creative quality is that your readers will applaud - express appreciation - enjoy the deception, the cleverness, the...entertainment value....of your creativity.......they will be grateful for the pleasure your deceptive story gave them, not angered by the deceit of it...

If they do NOT applaud - then you have missed the mark...

...You cannot blame the reader for the creative flaws in a concept that leaves your reader cold....the writer, as creator - alone - is responsible for that...

So, continue to write your stories....but, as you build them, draw us further IN through believable & logical next steps - not, as you did this time, expose the fake too early by introducing clearly incredible elements too soon...thus, turning the reader's energy from flowing WITH your story, to questioning the writer of it...

In short, the mistake you made was that you allowed the WRITER'S credibility to become the focus of interest, at the expense of your story...

McBain
02-24-2005, 4:48 AM
Originally posted by suffocated1
They'll be no more stories from me. So you can shove it.
awwww, what's happened, did the naughty boys find you out?

well don't you play with those bad boys any more!

:rolleyes:

tlbman
02-24-2005, 4:55 AM
What? No women like facesitting, it's not in their nature? I've never heard such rubbish. I think very few dominant women wouldn't like it (and yes, plenty of women are dominant, it's the real them, not just to please men).

rugman
02-24-2005, 5:13 AM
Originally posted by suffocated1
A writer can write a story which is interesting and grabs the readers attention. That's easy. Too easy. I can write any number of smother, facesitting, femdom stories in the space of an hour or so. I can do it from her pov 3rd person, his pov 3rd person, her pov 1st person, his pov 1st person. The hardest bit of writing is to conjure up a senario. But you didn't like it, did you? I offended you little sensibilities, didn't I? Why? Because just to start off with there was a little part of you which wanted to believe it. But instead of enjoying the creativity, the non-offensive writing game you felt offended because it wasn't true and you felt betrayed. Well, let me put you straight. I'm going to tell you that Father Xmas doesn't exist and thereafter Xmas will never, ever be the same ever again.

THERE AIN'T SUCH A THING AS A WOMAN ENJOYING FACESITTING/SMOTHERING.

They may do it because they love you, like my girlfriend. BUT IT ISN'T IN THEIR MAKEUP NOR NATURE TO ENJOY DOING IT.

So next time the fog covers your eyes and pride take note. You should be encouraging writing not trying to shoot it down in flames. They'll be no more stories from me. So you can shove it. Oh god. Settle down, will you? There’s no need for such drama.

Fine, you creatively constructed a bit of a skit. Great! Applause.

For a short time you even had me pulled in. I enjoyed it. But when you said that no woman enjoys facesitting, well, what planet do you infest? I’m not much of a FS fan, but even I, a newbie, a man-without-a-clue on the subject, knows better than that.

I’ve had exactly three women FS me. One is Ms Sara (of course). The other two are women whose names I don’t even know. They did it because they wanted to.

So enjoy your art, but I would suggest against being so pessimistic. Especially inaccurately.

(When I find myself defending the validity of other peoples’ kinks I know I have too much time on my hands)

E.Rotique
02-24-2005, 5:41 AM
Well put DownUnder007! :thumbsup:

Cheek2Cheek
02-24-2005, 7:20 AM
You're outta control, suffocated1. First, if you're going to pretend that you're on the level then don't get upset if people get riled 'cause they think you're full of it. That's the risk of the game you were playing, no? You WERE full of it, only it turns out you were just having a little fun. You WERE playing a game with us. Not all of us realized that. Are you going to pout about it now? Like I said, the reaction you got is a risk with such games. Nobody is faulting you for playing it, only for your pouty over-reaction to everyone. I was among your harshest critics because i made the mistake of taking you seriously. I found the notion of African women lording over men and sharing their "white boys" (where does one find a supply of white boys in Kenya or Tanzania?) offensive because, in reality, African women are treated quite horribly by their men. Now I see it's just a little fantasy, and I won't criticize someone for a harmless fantasy. But, as someone else said, don't get mad at us for not realizing your game.

mlanders99
02-24-2005, 10:09 AM
tlbman, you might be living in a fantasy world. With all due respect your your point of view, I agree with suffocated1, that women do not enjoy facesitting. Every woman I've been intimate with has done it to me, one even said it made her feel powerful, but I know none of them really liked it. They just did it to please me. Women do that very well. Now, fetish mistresses and porn stars don't count because they are getting paid to act like they like it. If they could do something else and make the same money they would. Look at Eve Ellis, she seemed to like facesitting her slaves, but turns out she didn't and went on to bondage and torture so she could stop putting her butt in faces. She might still do it, I don't really know her motives for changing styles, but I'll bet she didn't like facesitting.

Don't get me wrong, I'll fantasize like the rest of you, I want to believe that women enjoy getting off on my nose, but deep down I know I'm just a fetish weirdo, that "real women" are not going for it. Facesitting does not fit in with the regular rules of social behavior and it never will. Unless we have a paradigm shift, or a social 180, where women rule the earth by hunting, killing and raping the way men do... but what are the chances? And I truly don't want to live in that world. Men are dominant, women are subs... and they like it that way. Even in the workplace, women like a man to take the lead and make the final decision.

That said, let me post a great pic of a two women dominating a man (for fun) -- because I LIKE the dream.

from www.smother.com

dragonslair39
02-24-2005, 10:18 AM
HA HA HA HA BITCH :thebird: :thebird: :thebird:

motuman
02-24-2005, 10:48 AM
Well ........ I don't go online for a bit and look what happens.

Just a quick question for suffocated1: Since you played the story as fact (i.e. didn't call it out as a "story") you undoubtdedly were trying to elicit a reaction from the readers. Perhaps just seeing the effects of "pulling one over" on the crowd. So why get pissed off when you got a reaction?

Anyway, what a great thread overall! Almost as good as the toilet one a while back ...........

Motuman

John
02-24-2005, 12:38 PM
There are NO men that like to have women shit in their mouth.

I have spoken. It's a fact. Deal with it.

nathan
02-24-2005, 1:30 PM
LOL,

They just like the fantasy...if it came down to it actually happening...no one could really like it...


HAHA...DickInHisThroat is mad 'cuz he got called out on his game...

HAHAHA...You're mad. :D

CT face smother lover
02-24-2005, 1:35 PM
You should have indicated it was a story. You didn't.

dragonslair39
02-24-2005, 1:41 PM
Oh wait here is my TRUE no no not fake story of facesitting.

I'm from the Bronx as is J-Lo so we hooked up and she wanted to sit on my face so I said ok why not baby. But then she like did it to much and I was like bitching so she brought over Beyonce to the house and now they both use my face for their pleasure.

Can some help me, these girls force me to live out my fetish and fantasies everyday?

btlimited
02-24-2005, 1:42 PM
Not true. My current girlfriend not only enjoy's it, but suggests it. I thought, well that makes sense she's naked and i'm eatting her out, then she started doing it without caring whether i was going down "up" at the moment. Then she did it while wearing white pant's, infact the ones in the picture. So you stand corrected. It's funny, she's not into trampling, but will dig her heels in during sex... go figure

John
02-24-2005, 1:53 PM
She's lying to you. Of the 3 billion plus females on the planet, there are NONE that like facesitting. NONE I TELL YOU!

Cheek2Cheek
02-24-2005, 2:43 PM
I love when people make such sweeping statements about women's sexuality, as if all women are the same. There are women in this world who are into every possible sexual deviance imaginable. Like John said, there are at least 3 billion women in this world. You've never met one into facesitting, therefore they don't exist? I've never met a Shintoist either, so I guess all this talk in Japan is just fiction. This is kind of like the guy who can't get laid so he thinks all women are lesbians. Hey, are lesbians just a figment of your imagination too? Are there really women who like to eat pussy? Nawwww. Just part of male fantasies.
How naive can you be? There are many men on this board who can tell you different from personal experience. And what about the women? Tell JerseyGirl, Scorpio, etc., that there are no women into this. All I can say is try visiting somewhere like Frisco or L.A., or come here to New York. I'll show you women who would roll on the floor laughing at your idea of their prudishness. I'll show you women who can make the proverbial sailor blush. And I don't mean pros and strippers, either. I mean just regular gals. It all depends on how they were raised, I guess. I had a girlfriend at the age of 18 who was as kinky as they come, and she LOVED getting her ass licked. No one had ever offered before. Do you have any idea how many women are into the whole BDSM and D/S scene? And it aint just to please their men. Some don't even HAVE boyfriends, just slaves (or women). So before you generalize the whole world, you better get out there and see some of it.

dragonslair39
02-24-2005, 3:18 PM
Originally posted by dragonslair39
Oh wait here is my TRUE no no not fake story of facesitting.

I'm from the Bronx as is J-Lo so we hooked up and she wanted to sit on my face so I said ok why not baby. But then she like did it to much and I was like bitching so she brought over Beyonce to the house and now they both use my face for their pleasure.

Can some help me, these girls force me to live out my fetish and fantasies everyday?

Hello :p

suffocated1
02-25-2005, 12:46 AM
Well, well, well, we've got quite a few of Santa's little helpers, haven't we? Well my little elves, get your faces ready 'cos you'll be waiting for quite a long time. Unless you pay her or she loves you.

Sweeping statement? Not on your Nelly it isn't. It's a fact. How do I know. Psychology. The female's brain is all geared up for relationships. Our brains are all geared up for sex. That's at base value of course. You're bound to get the exception to the rule. But when they have sex they want to be nurtured, unless of course they want to dominate. If they want the latter the last thing they want to do is facesit. Why? Because it's so frigging boring for them. It's not for us because it's such a lovely view and feeling. But them? They want more of their own fantasies, and that doesn't include face-squatting.

So, you might want to hang up your stockings. But Santa ain't gonna come down your chimney.

E.Rotique
02-25-2005, 1:20 AM
Has anybody else noticed that not one female member (pun anyone?) has shown their hand in this thread? Come on Nikki, Jersey Girl, Scorpio, Lady Christa, Lady Joanne - has the pussy got your tongue? Speak your mind! Or are you afraid we won't like the truth?

Rich
02-25-2005, 1:32 AM
Originally posted by John
She's lying to you. Of the 3 billion plus females on the planet, there are NONE that like facesitting. NONE I TELL YOU!

A study was done at a Chicago Unversity back in 1976 on this very subject.

The results stated that all females not only enjoy facesitting butt if given a chance will knock a man down right in the street and sit right on their face.

The study went on to say that the only reason that women don't do it every day is because society has made it taboo. That and the fact that some girls are just plain not outgoing enough.

Dr. Leonard Reankey has spent 20 years or more collecting information on the relationships of women that use men all the time for their personal seats.
He says,
"All women are born with the need to cover a mans face with their buttocks, society, sadly enough, stifles this need."

He went on to say, "If you left four women alone on a deserted island with one man at birth, at about the age of eighteen the man would be spending most of his time with his nose under all the womens asses."

Dr. Reankey works at The Unversity of Chicago and always has a hard on. ;)

E.Rotique
02-25-2005, 1:37 AM
That's a bit rich, Rich. Nice one, but! ;)

McBain
02-25-2005, 3:12 AM
Originally posted by suffocated1
It's a fact. How do I know. Psychology. The female's brain is all geared up for relationships. Our brains are all geared up for sex. That's at base value of course. You're bound to get the exception to the rule. But when they have sex they want to be nurtured, unless of course they want to dominate.
LMFAO!

What colour is the sky on your planet? :rolleyes:

The days when girls went out just looking for relationships are long gone. The majority of the girls I meet on a night out are just after one thing.....SEX.....although not enough of them want it with me :cry: :machine:

icantbreath3
02-25-2005, 3:44 AM
Lovely fantasies. But I totally agree with suffocated1.

BTW does anyone know a cure for schizophrenia

dragonslair39
02-25-2005, 4:40 AM
INTERESTING, but you know if a woman is willing to make her man happy she will do just about anything to fulfill her search of a happy relationship. I have been with five women in my life, all kinda shy, none to be outspoken but I got all five to sit on my face, and why cause they knew that it made me happy and more willing to please them.

Cheek2Cheek
02-25-2005, 8:27 AM
I didn't realize that icantbreath3 and suffocated1 were women. They've been fooling us all this time and making us think they're men. What's that? They're NOT women? Well, then what exactly gives them the expertise to speak so authoritatively on the subject of female sexuality? And suffocated1, are you a psychologist? No? Have you ever even studied psychology on a collegiate level? No? If you had, you'd understand that there are no absolutes about human behavior. You'd know that biology, i.e. hormones, brain structure, etc., is only partially responsible for behavior. Often they are not even the main determinant factors. Human beings are not simply robots with pre-determined programming. You just read some pop psychology drivel in an issue of Time magazine, hmm? Maybe on the side of a cereal box? Where exactly did you derive your expertise on the subject? You must be a trained and accomplished psychologist armed with definitive studies to speak so authoritatively on the subject, and in such absolute terms.
What a pompous ass! It is utterly and completely laughable for some fool of a man to think that he can speak on behalf of 3 billion women and make such authoritative pronouncements about their sexuality. Alfred Kinsey and Masters & Johnson would cringe. Why did they even bother with all those useless studies? All they had to do was ask Mr.suffocated1.
"When they have sex they want to be nurtured". That's funny, because my last girlfriend actually preferred to be thrown on the bed and fucked silly. In fact, she'd be disapppointed if I did otherwise. She liked it rough and nasty - hair pulling, butt-slapping, etc. Her idea, not mine. I would never have even guessed if she didn't tell me what she wanted. How do you explain that, oh sexual guru?
" the last thing they want to do is facesit. Why? Because it's so frigging boring for them...They want more of their own fantasies, and that doesn't include face-squatting". How the hell would YOU know? What makes you an expert on what women's fantasies are, or what they find boring? How presumptuous can you be? If I had a dime for every minute she spent on my face, I'd be Bill Gates. She did it 'cause she loves me? Maybe. But a lot of women won't have sex of any kind with someone they don't love. Does that mean they don't like sex? It just means they are pickier than men. But not all women. There are indeed women out there who are looking for nothing but an easy fuck. Back in the day, I've been picked up at nightclubs by attractive women who wanted nothing more than to go home and fuck. They approached me, not the other way around, and they kicked me out in the morning like a cheap whore. Not that I complained, mind you. No, I'm not bragging. Just trying to make a point from personal experience. Yes, it happens. Anyone who has been a club-hopper in a big city knows it. Even today. In fact, probably even more so.

And may I ask, oh resident sexual genius, how you would explain such phenomenon as "bull dykes", i.e. women who behave in almost every way like a man and are as macho as John Wayne? You know, the ones riding motorcycles in motor-oil covered jeans, leather jackets, complete with armpit hair and tattoos. The ones who are clearly the "man" in a lesbian couple. Never seen one? Again, come to New York or Frisco. Go to any number of bars on a Friday night and you'll see hundreds of them. That is, if you can get past the mountainous bull-dyke guarding the front door - you know, the meek and submissive one who'll snap your neck in half if you try and get by her. And if it's a private party, inside you'll find all those relationship-oriented women who've got some pretty little thing tied to a table while they gang-bang her with a beer bottle. No, it's not the set of a porno movie. Some of those parties would put any porno movie to shame. It happens all the time. Just not in your sheltered and naive universe. If you don't think so, then obviously you've never been around the gay community. Go watch a Gay Pride Parade in person. You'll see plenty of aggressive women who will scare the shit out of a "ladies man" like you. They take great pleasure in shattering the illusions of men like you who think the world is filled with old-fashioned girls. And no, not all aggressive women are gay. Only insecure men think that.
Has it ever dawned on you that many women behave the way you think because they've been taught to by a male-dominated society that has always found women's sexuality threatening? I think you are scared by the idea of a sexually aggressive female. I and others are telling you from personal experience that this is not the case. Are you calling us liars? Are you, the man who posted a piece of fiction under the guise of truth, accusing others of such fiction because you've never had similar experiences? Much of what you say is true to a degree. The key phrase there is "to a degree". To say it is an absolute truth is absurd, and flies in the face of a lifetime of sexual experiences. Yes, you say there are "exceptions". But they are far more numerous than you imagine. And there will continue to be even more "exceptions" as culture changes, because much of the behavior you describe is mandated by culture, not biology and psychology. You cannot make ANY such universal statements about human behavior, whether sexual or not, male or female. Humans come in every imaginable shape, size, and color and with every conceivable sexual preference. You are really just hopelessly naive and clueless about women. There's a much bigger world out there than the sheltered one you dwell in. I suggest you get out there and see some of it before you pretend to be an expert about anything.

mlanders99
02-25-2005, 10:39 AM
Cheek2Cheek, I'd like to say you are one lucky man. The things you've seen, my goodness. Still, I have to agree with Suffocated1, but I'll qualify and say that MOST average, working females are not lesbian bulldykes - or dominatrix types. It sounds like you've had some truly interesting relationships with very aggresive women who like to be fucked silly. Have any of these relationships lasted longer then a year? Because I've also had girlfriends who acted like nympho sluts, but after we got comfortable, usually one year into dating, she changes her tune and tells me to stop pounding so hard, that sex hurts too much that way. I've had women initiate 69 with me and be as nasty as any porn star, but give her a while, she gets sick of the work and only wants to lay on her back and do it slowly and softly - and once a month.

I'm only talking from personal experience and my opinion means squat. It just seems like CheektoCheek is hanging out with a small minority of wild females, lesbians and sex freaks -- a group I'd like to meet.

Here's a test, take your own survey. Get a clip board and make up a bunch of silly sex questions and include the facesitting query. Ask 100 women if they like it. I'll bet my shirt 90 women will answer they don't like it or don't care about it, but they'd do it to please their significant other. Just like these woman are doing (they got paid too):

www.deadlyfemales.com ???
www.smother.com

StInKyFeEt01
02-25-2005, 11:43 AM
im a female i LOVE facesitting!

icantbreath3
02-25-2005, 3:15 PM
Oh dear, I seem to have made Cheek2Cheek a little bit cross. Still, shit happens.

I won't tell you what I do for a living, but it does have something to do with human nature. And by the way, I got a Masters in psychology at York University 15 years ago and the highest grade in my class. We can argue the 'is it nature or nurture' debate if you want.

My assertion is this - if you treat a woman right she'll facesit you, but she won't fantasise about it like we do. Otherwise you'll have to pay for it.

rugman
02-25-2005, 4:51 PM
Originally posted by StInKyFeEt01
im a female i LOVE facesitting! Case closed, I would think.

“Nothing destroys a theory so well as having it run smack into the brick wall of reality” – kenrug (1964 - )

“In life it is possible to be intelligent, well-educated, and wrong – all at the same time” – kenrug (1964 - ) :D

noface
02-25-2005, 10:01 PM
Okay...too much facesitting...I'm SORRY but I think it would be like complaining about getting too much of the pic. It's not possible! As a veteran of the facesit/facescissor buiz, I would say you get about 5 to 10 minutes AT MOST of 'down time' even after climax if you are being kept in the hold. If the woman keeps grinding the time is less and less. I personally can't see getting too much of it.

DU007
02-26-2005, 12:08 AM
Originally posted by icantbreath3
Lovely fantasies. But I totally agree with suffocated1.

BTW does anyone know a cure for schizophrenia

Now, THAT'S the most insightful thing (either of) you have said yet...:rolleyes:

Originally posted by suffocated1
My assertion is this - if you treat a woman right she'll facesit you, but she won't fantasise about it like we do. Otherwise you'll have to pay for it

But, take the absolutes out of all this, and its an interesting topic here...

I confess that I can't recall ever meeting a woman who said to me that her ultimate fantasy was sitting on a man's face.....And, I've never met a woman who's said to me that sitting on a man's face was the most erotic thing she ever does, or wants to do...

Call it biology, psychology, or social conditioning, whatever - whilst, like cheek2cheek, I've been taken home for 'instant' raunchy sex (that may include serious face-riding) by some very sexually-assertive women - I've never been taken home by a lady that wants to ride my face, as a priority...

On the other hand, I have been fortunate enough to meet lots of women who say they've loved sitting on my face - ie really enjoy it, get turned on by it, have orgasms doing it...and happily do it often.

So, what does that say...?

Does that say NO women like to face sit...?...Hell, no...Does it say women don't get genuine pleasure from facesiting...?....Hell, no....Does it even say women ONLY facesit their man to please him...?...Hell, no....

It says to me only that maybe it ain't top of the list for the women I've met so far...It says maybe facesitting ain't the primary erotic driver...It maybe says much more...

...It may even say women's sexuality is very complex - that the things that move their erotic levers are a combination of mental, emotional, and physical things...that ONE physical thing like, say, sitting on a face, will never be enough by itself to be a primary sexual motivator....any more than making her laugh - by itself - is enough to keep her happy....nor, good conversation - by itself....nor, money....nor being amazingly handsome, or charming, or kind, or sincere...or...or...etc etc.....Its a combination...

Bottom line...?

Its simplistic idiocy to say: "NO women like facesitting"...and its simplistic idiocy to say: "ALL women will only facesit to please a man (if you treat them right)".

...Its simplistic idiocy to say ANYTHING simple about ANY woman...:)

I say - like everything to do with women - their feelings about, and attitude to, facesitting are probably part of a complex set of mental, physical, and emotional combinations at any one moment...a combination that can rearrange itself - for any number of reasons - at any time...!!

At one moment, facesitting may be IT for her....Another moment, it may be raunchy 'fuck me' sex....Another moment, it may be slow, sensual, moody, love-making....Another moment, it may be "I'll fucking slap you around"....Another moment, it may be......."NOTHING, man..."...

I think we men can definitely influence her sexual attitude at any one moment...and the better we are at understanding her make-up the more she'll be in it...but, its NEVER set solid....nor, is it centred around, nor driven by, ONE physical (or even, mental) thing - like sitting on a face...

But is it possible for a woman to WANT to ride your face to hell, and back, at any given moment - just 'cos she wants to...?...Hell, YES...!!

For me, any woman - and her sexuality - will always be a constantly changeable friggin mystery....:)

Rich
02-26-2005, 2:10 AM
Originally posted by Cheek2Cheek
And may I ask, oh resident sexual genius, how you would explain such phenomenon as "bull dykes", i.e. women who behave in almost every way like a man and are as macho as John Wayne? You know, the ones riding motorcycles in motor-oil covered jeans, leather jackets, complete with armpit hair and tattoos. The ones who are clearly the "man" in a lesbian couple. Never seen one? Again, come to New York or Frisco. Go to any number of bars on a Friday night and you'll see hundreds of them. That is, if you can get past the mountainous bull-dyke guarding the front door - you know, the meek and submissive one who'll snap your neck in half if you try and get by her. And if it's a private party, inside you'll find all those relationship-oriented women who've got some pretty little thing tied to a table while they gang-bang her with a beer bottle. No, it's not the set of a porno movie. Some of those parties would put any porno movie to shame. It happens all the time.

Cheek2Cheek

I always knew these things existed, I read a lot of books.
I now know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, I will never pay one of these establishments a visit any time soon. :mrt:

Tell me tho, have you ever visited one? Do peoples necks get snapped often?

:eek:

Mistress in Pink
02-26-2005, 6:04 AM
E.Rotique: as around I am not afraid of anything or anyone. If men can't handle the truth that's there problem not mine.

I have only read bits and peices of this thread but speaking as a woman I will say this I LOVE FACESITTING AND YES TRAMPLING I love the control I have over a man when I have him pinned under me by either my ass or my feet. But I will say this, I was in a realtionship with a man that also complained I wanted it to much. THE WIMP So instead of listening to his whining eventually the relationship ended and I moved on.


dragonslair39 Look its true MEN AND WOMEN should work together in a relationship to make it work BUT BOTH HAVE TO WORK AT IT I ask this, why is it ok for a man to say to his wife/girlfriend lets have a 3 some you, me and another woman? Yet when the woman turns around as asks for a 3 some her, and two men, most men get pissed off and say know. Now if a woman should do what it takes in a relationship to make her man happy why can't a man do the same thing?

Up until a year ago I had no idea about facesitting, smothering or anything of this nature. I was in a relationship with a man who loved having that done, being ME I sad I would try it but it was basically of a selfish reason that I tried it more then just wanting to make him happy. I tried it I LOVED IT.

So of you know me some of you only know me through my posts (AKA JerseyGirl) THen there are few that know me from my first post ever. But basically its like this... There are women that do it for the pleasures they receive from it, There are women that do it to make her man happy, then there are women that do it for money reasons. If there are men that are willing to let women use there face as a seat why COMPLAIN about it RIGHT. BUT I do not agree with men who think women are into it for just money because that would be TOTAL BULLSHIT.

As for the person that started this thead (forgive me I cant remember your name..) But take it from a WOMAN I had a boyfriend like you that would complain it was to much IT GETS OLD when y ou keep rejecting it or tell her NO and speaking from experience ONE TO MANY REJECTIONS FROM YOU could very easily make her move on... Some men crack me up they bitch there girlfriend or wife wont facesit them, then when they give in and do it, they BITCH they wont stop.
YOU KNOW THAT OLD SAYING "BECAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR, YOU JUST MAY GET IT" WEll shit if you wish for a facesitting girlfriend/wife and she does that for you dont BITCH about it damnit just enjoy it, its obvious you wanted her to do that for you , she is willing to WHATS THE PROBLEM????

Facesittee
02-26-2005, 6:34 PM
Originally posted by icantbreath3
"My assertion is this - if you treat a woman right she'll facesit you, but she won't fantasise about it like we do. Otherwise you'll have to pay for it"

Well, actually your assumption is false...At least in my experience. My current Girlfriend wasnt into facesitting when we first met however I introduced the concept to her and she tried it and now she loves it. She thinks about it and fantasizes about it as much if not more then I do and not only am I not complaining, I enjoy it more and more every time :D. I don't know maybe this is the exception to the rule but its been my experience.

I can't really understand how ANYONE could get tired of it, personally.

Cheek2Cheek
02-27-2005, 10:24 AM
No icantbreath3, you didn't make me angry. My tone is a mocking one, not an angry one. I just love it when men speak as if they have any real expertise on the subject on what women are into.Obviously, only women can truly answer that question. Suffocated1 writes as if he is positive that what he says is true, and he has absolutely no way of being so certain, nor should he be. Again, it's like saying that since I have never been to China, therefore China must not exist. His experiences, or lack thereof, are thankfully not universal.
Western men have been understimating women's sexuality for centuries. It wasn't all that long ago that it was commonly believed that the female orgasm was a myth, and that women "tolerated" sex merely to please their husbands and reproduce, having no sex drive of their own. Awfully convenient for the men, who therefore didn't need to worry about pleasing their women. This present argument sounds quite similar to those ridiculous beliefs. Many women are uncomfortable about their sexual desires because of men's fucked up attitudes about women's sexuality. Many old-fashioned men are turned off by the idea of a sexually experienced or desirous woman. They think a woman who knows what she's doing and knows what she wants is a slut. I'm not exactly sure what "slut" really means. Here in New York there's a cliche about Italian-American men. They cheat on their wives to get blowjobs because they don't even want their wives to do it. They don't want the mouth that sucks their cocks to be the same mouth that kisses their children, so they'd rather cheat! How fucked up is that? The classic madonna/whore syndrome. So if you want to know why many woman are hesitant about being sexually adventurous, you can blame men to a large degree. And of course, ANY blanket statement about what women want is preposterous. Women can indeed be fickle and moody. Their wants and needs are not the same from day to day. That's a fact.
As for surveys, if 10% of women are into this that's a lot. After all, how many MEN are into what this board is all about? Do any of you think your love of facesitting is that common among men? A lot of guys here are into fully clothed women, sometimes in jeans, simply sitting on their faces - no oral sex, no direct sexual stimulation, no direct sexual contact at all - just being sat on and smothered, sometimes to unconsciousness. HOW MANY MEN DO YOU THINK ARE INTO THAT? Not that many at all, I'd bet. For most men who say they like face-sitting, they're talking about oral sex or 69, etc. They're not into FS as a fetish for it's own sake, and they can't even comprehend the appeal of smothering. What percentage of men do you think are into this kind of thing? It probably is more than women, but I'm sure it's not even close to a majority of men. So why is the fact that most women aren't into this even an issue? The fact is - most PEOPLE aren't into this fetish - male or female. The same goes for ANY fetish. If it was really that common, it would be considered simply normal sexual behavior, not a fetish. A fetish by definition is an aberration from the norm.
And as for my experiences, they are not so unique. New York is a very liberal place. That's why the girl-next-door who you thought was a prude moves to NY, because here she's much more free to do as she pleases without the whole town talking about her. About half of NY's polulation wasn't even born here. The city's nightlife is a magnet for a lot of people, and it can get pretty wild. It's not like it used to be, though. But "sexually-liberated" women are certainly common here. Prudish women are seen as something of an anachronism. Progressive attitudes about everything from politics to fashion to sex are a big part of what this town's about. Women here are no different from women where you all live. It's just that in a place like NY (and other places like 'Frisco, etc), people tend to shed their inhibitions because that kind of peer pressure is absent. Even though it's one of the oldest major cities in the USA, it is not at all about upholding tradition and traditional ways of doing things. Trust the women in even middle-America would be a lot more sexually adventurous in they felt comfortable about doing so. Women can be lot wilder and perverse in their desires than many men think (or are willing to admit).

alphafemale1
03-02-2005, 7:19 AM
well, hmmmm why wouldn't we love facesitting ? I adore facesitting the power I have over butt puppie is such a turn on, I love to tease him with my ass. I will often stick it right in his face when getting up off the couch. I have even slept with my ass pressed up against his face, he says I sometimes grind in my sleep. heheheheheh prue pleasure. I dont get bored . I will sit on him while watching tv or playing games its a blast. I love the long face sits where he becomes more and more helpless the longer I sit . When I dont sit for awhile I get easly frustrated and angry , so it seems to be a stress releif for me also.


Mistress Anne

bbq
03-02-2005, 8:54 AM
MITRESS ANNE,

So nice to see you back :) ! How are you feeling :confused: ?? Is everythimng OK now :( ???

CT face smother lover
03-02-2005, 5:50 PM
Originally posted by alphafemale1
well, hmmmm why wouldn't we love facesitting ? I adore facesitting the power I have over butt puppie is such a turn on, I love to tease him with my ass. I will often stick it right in his face when getting up off the couch. I have even slept with my ass pressed up against his face, he says I sometimes grind in my sleep. heheheheheh prue pleasure. I dont get bored . I will sit on him while watching tv or playing games its a blast. I love the long face sits where he becomes more and more helpless the longer I sit . When I dont sit for awhile I get easly frustrated and angry , so it seems to be a stress releif for me also.


Mistress Anne

Welcome back, it's great to see you here again!

mabampas1
02-19-2008, 2:48 AM
gie her to me.. am in Nairobi n cant get what ur gettin!!!

mabampas1
02-19-2008, 2:49 AM
give her to me.. am in Nairobi n cant get what ur gettin!!!

ooglyboogly
02-19-2008, 7:08 AM
Id have assumed it would be easy to get black women to sit on your face.

Lol just watch MTV Base, its even got black women believing in it. The black womans soul is in her ass, in her ass I say!!!

Go to a hiphop club, (a big blingy necklace and other items of crass jewellery may help enhance your social standing amongst the baby girls- but mind you dont make any baby bois jealous unless you really really like molten lead or pointy metal)

Say to girl- giiirrll i like ur booty, whats all that junk, all that junk in your trunk, i wanna see your lady humps, ur lady humps i say etc, and your off my lad!

Dont hang about till closing time, leave at least an hour early to avoid people who can only be described as thick when sober never mind drugged up.

Take a taxi home under no circumstances should you take the night bus with the ghetto people! Once home put mtv base on and say shake ur booty or such like and go from there....



Back to this topic, suffocated if you really feel the need to write a thesis on the schematics of an arse on your face and then get all "terribly angry" about it, then you really need to find a more fulfilling/tiring form of employment, a hobby or hell get back to kenya and guard your house against the rioters that would be much more productive.

pearl
02-19-2008, 2:47 PM
suffocated.....you lucky lucky dude.........I enjoyed all your jobs.......but finally you got urselg one girl+her sister.......damn enjoy dude.....remember u r one of the lucky guys out there....