Slave to someone who genuinely hates me?

[billpreston]

I had a massive fallout with a girl i used to be friends with years ago. She cant stand me and blanks me still. When i see her she gives me dirty looks, makes snide comments and puts me down. She is beautiful and even though she was a bitch i regret it to this day.
This girl is very domineering and i dont know if she even knows about the lifestyle but i am thinking that the next time i meet her i will offer my slavery as a peace offering. I really believe she would take great pleasure in humiliating me for real and making me her slave and making no secret about it. And i will happily serve her, to show how sorry i am.

Anyway, wish me luck :)

[equidum]

Bonne chance, l'ami !!!

[macrina]

Good luck.

[devot2her]

I really want to know how this turns out. I sincerely hope she doesn't just tell you to get lost and then tell everyone what you offered her.

You do realize that's a very real risk? Of course, that kind of humiliation could be a turn-on anyway, huh?

[sinbad]

Yeah, devot2her has a good point. She may just look at you with a more pathetic look than before, and all her friends would then have that same look.
Be careful bud. It's risky.

[billpreston]

I know that might happen guys. But fuck it im gonna go for it. We will see what happens! :)

[sinbad]

I've seen over the years that love makes you do some crazy shit man. lol.
Good luck man.
sinbad

[HybridTheory]

How did it go?

[billpreston]

I havent seen her since. Typical! Should see her soon dont worry ill be sure to update :D

[flatworm00]

Be careful for what you wish for. Like others have said, she could really make you the laughing stock of the area. Or...she might like the idea and really abuse you.
There was a post years back when this was Daddo's forum in the 90's where a guy did that for his ex wife and she nearly killed him. He had to escape from her...I don't know if the story was true or not...but made for some interesting reading.
Good luck and let us know how it turns out.

[Sauur]

Be careful for what you wish for. Like others have said, she could really make you the laughing stock of the area. Or...she might like the idea and really abuse you.
There was a post years back when this was Daddo's forum in the 90's where a guy did that for his ex wife and she nearly killed him. He had to escape from her...I don't know if the story was true or not...but made for some interesting reading.
Good luck and let us know how it turns out.

I'd be interested in reading about that? Do you have a link to it?

[HybridTheory]

I'd also like a link to that if possible. Or even a post of his encounter.

[Vanessa Chaland]

She might also just call the police and have you charged with lewd harrasment. :)

[sinbad]

This is possible also....

[Maxdivor]

This is possible also....

Sinbad as always makes a sensible point --

But to me this just heightens the appeal of it. The danger is part of what's so alluring.

To paraphrase McLuhan (I'm too lazy to spelck), "the message is the fetish" --

The very fact she holds you in contempt, gives it possibility...

I would combine it with an actual gift. Get her something, and include it in the presentation. On your knees of course.

I think you stand the best chance of success if you make it plain you really are that humble -- you're just offering; given that you really worship her and simply want to serve (if that's true).... you should be thinking mainly of her utility and amusement.

I say go for it, and do keep us posted.

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[sinbad]

Actually Vanessa made the point, I just agreed with her....Thanks though. : )

[Maxdivor]

Actually Vanessa made the point, I just agreed with her....Thanks though. : )

ahsoh, merci de correction -- i wasn't being exegetical, and certainly didn't mean to be mis-exegetical, or erroneo-getical... just stream of consciousness.

in just a few short weeks, "tweeting" has ruined what was left of my mind...

[HybridTheory]

This was something I was curious in reading. Updates?

[ronino]

Move slowly and carefully... Watch her reactions carefully.

If you offer your slavery, she might refuse just for the sheer pleasure of disappointing you...

So you have also to play with her mind. Find out what she really wants or needs and offer it to her, but not at once.

I once was training a young woman who was doing her internship at our company. She was not interested in me at all. She was very worried about finding a job during the height of the financial crisis.

When I started offering her things, she got it and took advantage. I made her a good cv, I taught her how to look for good jobs, I fixed her computer, I even helped her with some home chores.

She squeezed out what she could from me. Finding out my weak spots, she started teasing me (legs crossing, wearing high heels etc.) in order to have me do her job.

When she thought she got enough of me, she disappeared.

I cannot say I haven't enjoyed it, though...

[bobolguard]

You can have fantasies but you should submit to only someone you love and trust and not to someone who can cause you damage.Otherwise the relationship will never be safe sane and consensual.
Lot of things have gone bad between people when some hatred was involved.Today BDSM is part of many people's bedroom lives and you can eaisly discuss the same with some other girl whom you like.

[Goldman]

Hmm perhaps you could word it like;

'Hey im really sorry the way things have turned out between us, and i really miss you as a friend. Id practically do what ever you wanted to make things right, hell i'd even be you're slave for a bit!'

say it so it seems like she wont know whether you are joking or not.. this way it could leave you with a way out if things start going downhill.

This is what i would go for, and i've been tempted to say it to a girl whom im in the same situation with.. Although im not sure it would work with my girl as she is probably too nice deep down.

[OmegaMan]

I hope you went for it.

Any update?

[geobunny]

as a female, this strikes me as a terrible idea... especially if it's an ex. there's contempt and domination but then there's hatred. a woman who absolutely hates you probably doesn't want to humiliate/dominate you if she knows you take enjoyment in it.
if i was approached by an ex with this sort of suggestion i would be extremely creeped out.

[platformsnasics]

Sounds like something I would have wished for when I was in high school. You should really consider the implications of such an action...as an adult.

[billpreston]

It turns out she actually enjoys having a slave. I have been told to stop using these fetish sites, but will post updates when i am given permission. She might even join herself :)

[Apricus]

Hard to believe! Please tell us how it happened.

[Mistress1984]

Something just doesn't seem Kosher?
:mrt:

[DanniPandemos]

I can't imagine that any hitherto 'vanilla' woman would buy into that...

[devot2her]

Perhaps she wasn't all that vanilla and didn't hate him as much as he thought? I don't know. More details would be nice though.

[DanniPandemos]

Possibly, but I'm still not buying it.

I would *love* to be disproven though!