Anyone have fetishes that are more fun to think about than to actually do?

[magicianwandered]

So, among other things, I am interested in post orgasm cock torture (by that I mean overstimulation not actual torture). For those not aware, many men have a post orgasm state where sexual stimulation of the wang is actually really uncomfortable. It's like being ticked, but more urgent and less funny (to the person it's being done to).

This seems to be the kind of fetish where it's more sexy to think about than it is when it's actually being done to you. I've tried to do it to myself, but somehow I just can't go through with it. I lose interest each time, the curiosity is gone. Also I've had my wife try it, but somehow it don't work with her hand very well. I was thinking of ordering a fleshlight and having her do it to me that way.

It's one of those things that seems to be jerk-off fuel, in that it's sexy to think about, but you're not into it when it's being done to you. The videos of it I can find online look sexy (handdomination.com is a good source), but I know I'd want it to stop if it were happening.

Anyone else have fetishes like that?



Side note: post orgasm overstimulation is much more effective when it's a vagina doing it to you than a hand. I can't find any vids of a girl fucking a guy after an orgasm just to inflict discomfort (probably because it's hard to show what's happening in a video). Does anyone have any links of that happening?

[Tad]

This may be very tame compared to other ideas here, but one of the fetishes I have had for a long long time is a desire to be overpowered by a strong woman and rendered helpless beneath her. Well, a few years ago, my wife of many years and I discovered that she can now power me, throw me down on the floor sit on my back or stomache in a straddle and pin and keep me there until she decides to let me up. She has done it a few times since and with her weight pushing me down on the hard floor it is very physically painful. I can hardly breath and I really feel like I am being crushed. I have been reduced to begging her to get off me and I really mean it. In short, I do not like when she is actually doing it to me and want her to stop almost right away. Yet, I still have the fetish. Thinking about what she can and sometimes does do to me still gets me excited and I actually want her to do it to me again. Yet when she does, it is not fun at all and I want her to stop and let me up.
Does that qualify for your question?
Tad

[hellgrinder]

Mine would be drowning (under water facesitting, etc). I absolutely love the fetish, but everytime I try it, and water rushes up my nose, it's the worst feeling in the world. So I prefer to keep it to the imagination.

[Razor]

This may be very tame compared to other ideas here, but one of the fetishes I have had for a long long time is a desire to be overpowered by a strong woman and rendered helpless beneath her.
Tad

This is one of mine. I have for a LONG time now fantasized about being physically dominated, like in a wrestling match, or just something minor like being defeated in armwrestling.

I know from just witnessing a girl in the gym squatting more then me, that this fetish isn't one i think id ever want to fulfill haha. I mean it'd be fun if i ever were to arrange a session with some fbb that does wrestling sessions, but as far as actual, real life getting dominated like that, yeesh, much hotter to keep as fantasy. Especially if its a gf/wife, someone you care about who you want to impress and stuff haha, you dont want them beatin you, unless you let em of course.

Forced bi is another. Cuckolding too, i dont think i could ever actually do that. If my girl wanted to, i maybe could go through with an mmf threesome, but id have to be an equal part in it.

[kickedkarpet]

I have several harsh fantasies, one being in a room with 4-5 or even more women, with me being completely nacked, on the floor, kneeling or crawling submissively, and the women fully clothed.

They are having fun kicking me around, most of them wearing shoes. They kick me without mercy, FULL FORCE. My screams of pain just make them laugh and giggle, they find it highly amusing to kick the shit out of me. They call me names and spit at me. Their kicks hit me with massive force, I am like a puppet that is kicked around, from one corner of the room to the other, totally helpless.

I am kicked for what seems decades and end up totally bruised and fully finished, bleeding and broken, crouching on the floor.

Then all the ladies put one foot one me, striking victory poses, they are laughing and mocking me.

So, thats a sheer fantasy, I would not want to get hurt. But the fantasy of being kicked to a pulp by many women is arousing.

KK

[Miss Panic in Chicago]

I absolutely love the rush I get from wrestling with my boyfriend, being thrown off the bed, and picked up and body slammed.

It usually leads to sex with us, because I get so hot and sweaty that I start peeling off the layers.

This is something I have a fetish for at home though, not in the work place.

It grosses me out to think of other sweaty men pushing me around.
lol

[n2feet23]

There are several that I can watch but never would do. One of mine is Ballbusting, getting hit accidentally hurts like hell, I can't even imagine standing there knowing it is coming and having someone kick me in the balls. I love watching it though.

The other is strap on. I love watching a girl use one on a man, but I couldn't do it.

[Sisyphos]

well well, this is my topic to a large degree ...

having hellot of masochist fantasies, very intrigued by so much I watch in this area - in reality I can´t stand anything beyond light (best days: medium) pain without feeling just the pain and nothing else ...

given that, there is so much off limits to me that is still a total mindfuck ...

[subfootstool]

1. Being kicked in the balls 2. prolonged chastity

These spring to mind.

[cearalynch]

Talking a sub I totally hate into cutting his dick off.

Of course, I dont know if you'd consider that a "fetish" as nothing about it turns me on remotely. I just think it would be cool.

[nathan]

This may be very tame compared to other ideas here, but one of the fetishes I have had for a long long time is a desire to be overpowered by a strong woman and rendered helpless beneath her. Well, a few years ago, my wife of many years and I discovered that she can now power me, throw me down on the floor sit on my back or stomache in a straddle and pin and keep me there until she decides to let me up. She has done it a few times since and with her weight pushing me down on the hard floor it is very physically painful. I can hardly breath and I really feel like I am being crushed. I have been reduced to begging her to get off me and I really mean it. In short, I do not like when she is actually doing it to me and want her to stop almost right away. Yet, I still have the fetish. Thinking about what she can and sometimes does do to me still gets me excited and I actually want her to do it to me again. Yet when she does, it is not fun at all and I want her to stop and let me up.
Does that qualify for your question?
Tad

LMAO...Sorry!...I'm a dick...I know...but that cracked me up.

Lets see...things that are better left as fantasy,eh?

Probably for me would be gross humiliating stuff...like in a clip I'm all "that's hot."...but in real life I'm more like "No way...I'm not licking that...gross!"..lol

[nathan]

Talking a sub I totally hate into cutting his dick off.

Of course, I dont know if you'd consider that a "fetish" as nothing about it turns me on remotely. I just think it would be cool.

LMAO!!!

Yah...I think this one definitely fits in with the guys who have the castration fantasy...which I don't get at all...I love my cock..we hang out like every day!

But I'm sure if it happened it'd be one of those really shrivelled up ones...still..afterwards, I guarantee he's thinking "wow...that was a bad idea."..lolol

[subfootstool]

Cearalynch is right. Castration or amputation of the penis must be the ultimate fantasy that you might jerk off thinking about but don't want to happen.

[Tad]

Hey Nathan, you are not a dick at all for finding my situation funny. In fact I am kind of pleased that some one gets a kick out of it. Moreover, when I try to think of it objectively, as though it is not me involved, it strikes me as sort of funny also.
I guess it's a case of be careful of what you wish for because it may come true and then you will hate it but still wish for it. Yup, that is funny.
Tad

[nathan]

Hey Nathan, you are not a dick at all for finding my situation funny. In fact I am kind of pleased that some one gets a kick out of it. Moreover, when I try to think of it objectively, as though it is not me involved, it strikes me as sort of funny also.
I guess it's a case of be careful of what you wish for because it may come true and then you will hate it but still wish for it. Yup, that is funny.
Tad

lol...ok, good...I mean, I was just picturing it all fun an games and then yer like "k..get off now..this hurts."..and she's not goin' anywhere so yer like.."ummm...please get off?"..lol...i dunno...it just read funny...but yer right, not so funny when it's going on...which is why i didn't want to come off as a dick too much while i was laughing. ;)