Mordred478
10-21-2009, 3:02 AM
A lot of the recent discussion in the Racial Domination/Slavery thread has got me wondering about something. In particular, many posts describe scenarios in which a man is forced by an all-powerful female who not only dominates the man, but owns him as a slave, and who for all these reasons is able to force him to do things he certainly wouldn't ordinarily do, that's for sure, specifically things designed to make the man experience the most extreme possible humiliation. Not surprisingly, in this thread, such scenarios fairly often involve a black goddess/owner and a white male slave.
What's clear from various posts, to me anyway, is that for some people, there is something about adding the racial component--specifically--to the more familiar scenes of Dominant and submissive, owner and slave, etc., that makes the resulting emotional and erotic experiences *much* more potent. Particularly, humiliation seems to be as common, maybe the most common, focal point of these posts--not that this likely comes as a surprise to anyone here. All of this leads to the subject of this post, which I'll now get to as quickly as I can! ;-)
We're all familiar with the paradox at the heart of such fetish, whereby what one would normally consider the least desireable of all experiences or feelings--such as humiliation--and would thus avoid like the plague, can become something one craves more than anything, because if one has the nerve to suffer through the experience, one then experiences a kind of all-encompassing release, a deep calm and sense of peace not otherwise available.
So, I'm not surprised that race, given all the deep and powerful "stuff" it can evokes in people, when added to the erotic mix in question, might make for some of the most intense such release.
For example, there is that famous/infamous yearning buried deep inside many white men--genuinely straight white men--perhaps too humiliating for many even to acknowledge internally--involving black men and/or their penises. There are many familiar variations on the theme, of course. For some, this scene they so secretly find themselves aching for might involve others, male or female, or just themselves and the black man; it might involve a need to "service" the black man's penis, orally; or to be overpowered by the black man, taken, altogether, perhaps being put on his back and fucked anally; it may mean acknowledging verbally the superiority of the black man's penis, saying as much out loud--there are no doubt as many different variations as there are white men who crave such an experience.
The point is that, as I see it, in the case of white men who are genuinely heterosexual and who have a powerful need to have this experience, what it really is is one of the most, if not the most (for some), extreme experience of humiliation possible--thus the intensity of the craving for it, i.e., the more intense the humiliation, the more sublime the emotional release afterwards.
Of course, for these and other reasons, I suspect that in most cases the man would, indeed, need to be forced, in order to actually go through with it, hence the connection to racial domination and slavery. We're talking about a powerful Woman who not only dominates but actually owns the man, as a slave, thus assuring him that he will have no way of preventing Her from forcing him to do whatever is She wishes him to; and I can see how, for a lot of white men, in particular, if this Goddess was also black, that would amplify all of it for him--perhaps especially if She were a huge BBW, larger and physically stronger than him regardless of context.
Again, all of this is just my two cents, I soytanly don't claim to know everything. ;-) So, if you disagree, please go easy on me. ;-) But I would like to read different people's takes on it all.
M
What's clear from various posts, to me anyway, is that for some people, there is something about adding the racial component--specifically--to the more familiar scenes of Dominant and submissive, owner and slave, etc., that makes the resulting emotional and erotic experiences *much* more potent. Particularly, humiliation seems to be as common, maybe the most common, focal point of these posts--not that this likely comes as a surprise to anyone here. All of this leads to the subject of this post, which I'll now get to as quickly as I can! ;-)
We're all familiar with the paradox at the heart of such fetish, whereby what one would normally consider the least desireable of all experiences or feelings--such as humiliation--and would thus avoid like the plague, can become something one craves more than anything, because if one has the nerve to suffer through the experience, one then experiences a kind of all-encompassing release, a deep calm and sense of peace not otherwise available.
So, I'm not surprised that race, given all the deep and powerful "stuff" it can evokes in people, when added to the erotic mix in question, might make for some of the most intense such release.
For example, there is that famous/infamous yearning buried deep inside many white men--genuinely straight white men--perhaps too humiliating for many even to acknowledge internally--involving black men and/or their penises. There are many familiar variations on the theme, of course. For some, this scene they so secretly find themselves aching for might involve others, male or female, or just themselves and the black man; it might involve a need to "service" the black man's penis, orally; or to be overpowered by the black man, taken, altogether, perhaps being put on his back and fucked anally; it may mean acknowledging verbally the superiority of the black man's penis, saying as much out loud--there are no doubt as many different variations as there are white men who crave such an experience.
The point is that, as I see it, in the case of white men who are genuinely heterosexual and who have a powerful need to have this experience, what it really is is one of the most, if not the most (for some), extreme experience of humiliation possible--thus the intensity of the craving for it, i.e., the more intense the humiliation, the more sublime the emotional release afterwards.
Of course, for these and other reasons, I suspect that in most cases the man would, indeed, need to be forced, in order to actually go through with it, hence the connection to racial domination and slavery. We're talking about a powerful Woman who not only dominates but actually owns the man, as a slave, thus assuring him that he will have no way of preventing Her from forcing him to do whatever is She wishes him to; and I can see how, for a lot of white men, in particular, if this Goddess was also black, that would amplify all of it for him--perhaps especially if She were a huge BBW, larger and physically stronger than him regardless of context.
Again, all of this is just my two cents, I soytanly don't claim to know everything. ;-) So, if you disagree, please go easy on me. ;-) But I would like to read different people's takes on it all.
M