Idea: Why not use this site to...

[Mordred478]

...allow like-minded people seeking a more permanent connection, an actual relationship, to find one another. Yes, I understand that the site is essentially a business venue for the woman and for the men, a combined source of arousal and of opportunities to hook up with some of the goddesses, if lucky.
But we are people too, and one thing that's clear from reading the posts here by both men and women is that they are seeking each other. Many a warm, loving relationship is based upon a very natural TPE dynamic of the kind found here between the right man and woman. So, in the midst of all the titillation and advertizing, why not allow ourselves to be human. Naturally Dominant women seeking naturally submissive men, and vice versa, is what the site is chuck full of. So reach out, people, say: "I'm sick of being alone and I'm not gonna take it anymore!" :-0

M

[sinbad]

LOL! Problem is Mordred. Is there about 20 to 25 women on this site....at least that participate in this great forum.....and lets see, about 30,000 guys. hmmmmm...
good thought though. I think it would be like any other dating site..spam cit, or people out to make a buck.

[tuvaletkolesi]

great idea!!!! how come i never thought about this!!!???

[Mordred478]

LOL! Problem is Mordred. Is there about 20 to 25 women on this site....at least that participate in this great forum.....and lets see, about 30,000 guys. hmmmmm...
good thought though. I think it would be like any other dating site..spam cit, or people out to make a buck.

I know, I know. ;-) Yes, what you say am true. :-0 Partly I just wanted to say to all the members that in principle there's no reason we couldn't try using this site, in part, in that way. It occurs to me even now, for example, that women almost always have single girlfriends who they'd like to help meet a great guy. Given the nature of this site, it might be the case that some of you BBWs, though you yourselves may be here for business reasons, may have friends who are BBWs, who have perhaps been frustrated in the dating department in large part because they find or believe that their weight makes them undesirable to men, living in the faint hope of meeting a guy who is both terrific as a man and who loves a woman of that size and shape.
You see, previously I tried two or three of the personals sites for BBWs and their admirers. BOY did they suck! ;-) Their whole orientation was wrong. The formality of it, the focus on 'dating' as opposed to allowing both the men and the women to openly express who they really were and what they really wanted--the fulfillment of their particular erotic nature in addition to, hopefully, a fulfilling and lasting relationship. The sites always seem to be one extreme or the other: purely sexual, which means fantasy and business, or traditional dating sites that miss the point and are guaranteed to lead nowhere.
So in theory, if a site like this where men and women freely and proudly express their true erotic identities could add a feature of some kind where those same people, if single and seeking a partner, could connect, it'd be better than cheddar and a monkey. :-0

M

[sinbad]

LOL. That was kind of confusing, but I think I got ya. I'm all for it if you could make it work dude.
sinbad