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Recently I found the courage to admit my fantasy to my girlfriend of 4 years-- she knows about my kinks, but thought the idea of chastity might be a little too different for her. Contra to my expectation-- she is super excited, which has made it all the better and more exciting for me. Furthermore, she says she has known all along and has been waiting for me to come out about it.
My question is this--
I am mainly looking at CB series belts (are there better ones??)
Secondly, I would like to get the latest and greatest (cb-6000), however I wonder if sizing is an issue. I am a bit larger that average and I know these things are non-returnable/refundable. I know the curve is for larger sizes, but does anyone have first hand experience???
Well no responses. But I ordered it anyways-- and to anyone else in a similar position, The cb-6000 is amazingly comfortable-- worth every penny.
My girlfriends response to it has been overwhelming, for long I thought she would find it weird-- but instead she has found it to be equally erotic to be able to control me, and has also thoroughly embraced my new behavior towards her.
I have only been released thus far for cleaning (6+ days locked). On a few occasions I had asked for her to unlock me (just to see if she would show mercy, and hoping she wouldn't) and she has yet to give in to my begging which I love. I am an avid cyclist-- and it is perfectly comfortable (not like I have a choice anymore). I may have created a monster, but for the moment my life feels semi-complete.
I am eagerly awaiting the dreamlover-- until then, does anyone know of a good book I could buy for her?
Well no responses. But I ordered it anyways-- and to anyone else in a similar position, The cb-6000 is amazingly comfortable-- worth every penny.
My girlfriends response to it has been overwhelming, for long I thought she would find it weird-- but instead she has found it to be equally erotic to be able to control me, and has also thoroughly embraced my new behavior towards her.
I have only been released thus far for cleaning (6+ days locked). On a few occasions I had asked for her to unlock me (just to see if she would show mercy, and hoping she wouldn't) and she has yet to give in to my begging which I love. I am an avid cyclist-- and it is perfectly comfortable (not like I have a choice anymore). I may have created a monster, but for the moment my life feels semi-complete.
I am eagerly awaiting the dreamlover-- until then, does anyone know of a good book I could buy for her?
I also ordered the CB6000 and had much different results. I don't think I'm large (and I'm definitely not compared to porn stars). I'm wondering if it has something to do with me being uncircumsized. In any event glad to hear you are having fun with it!
Have you been able to "cheat" with it on? According to some web reviews its possible.
Does your girl taunt you about not being able to play with yourself? :)
mkman
07-30-2009, 10:23 PM
She absolutely does. It has been absolutely ridiculous-- like she has been reading fantasy novels or something-- everything I hoped for and thought it would probably fall short of has been given to me. She has always been very conservative apart from this which has definitely had a huge impact on our relationship. She made me put on a smaller ring size today which has definitely been a challenge to adapt to. On day 9 now... thought she would have given me a break by now but as long as she is having fun with it I am happy.
If I really wanted to with some craftyness I could slip my dick out when it is soft, jerk off-- but then have no way of getting it back in... so for all practical purposes she would know I was messing around.
This is so bitter sweet-- I am getting exactly what I always wished for (be careful what you wish for). Today she gave me the option of licking her and being jerked off or getting fucked. Regardless of my choice I don't think she had any intention of finishing the job-- and I have the worst case of blue balls I have ever had. She brought me seconds from an orgasm, got up, left the room for a minute, came back dropped and ice pack on my dick and then put the device back on-- and I was tied up the whole time. Day 10 I think
On Saturday, I took her out for a romantic date-- after words she told me I had earned a release. She told me she was going to tie me up again so I wouldn't be able to touch myself-- but promised she would let me go this time.
It started out amazing-- usually I last about 10 minutes, this time I was ready to explode after 90 seconds. She began squeezing my balls with her hand and told me I had 30 seconds to finish-- and I wasn't able to so she stopped.
She then pulled out an odd looking device (I now know it as a prostate massager). I had very little knowledge of the subject, just something I had read a few things about, apparently she purchased a book which has been fueling all of her ideas. I don't know that I fully enjoyed it but more enjoy the thought of how in over my head I am with my girlfriend. The best thing to come of it is that my balls are no longer so swollen and sore.
Afterward she made a joke about me not needing my balls anymore, and how she wants to turn them into one of those metallic ornaments to hang off of the back of her truck-- obviously a joke tho.
My next chance for an orgasm will be after our next date on Saturday if she is "in a giving mood".
Wow sounds like a fantasy come true... good luck man!
Certainly seems like it. Definitely way harder than I ever anticipated. We have since discussed a weekly release (not necessarily a real one) as long as I have behaved through the week. I could not handle the soreness or mental aspect for much more than a week-- it was becoming very hard to focus.
Will update you if anything changes. Don't get me wrong-- this is what I've always wanted but I'm beginning to parse fantasy from reality and understand what is truly feasible if this is to be a long term thing. Still 7 days isn't as short as it may sound-- if you don't believe me than try it!
ryan081083
08-16-2009, 7:03 AM
well if you are looking for different kinds of CB why dont you try to search google for websites that offers different kinds of CB
Figured I would update this since it has been a while. My girlfriend has slowly been pushing the limits of my release-- the next time I will be allowed the "chance" for an orgasm will be new years...
She has also been teasing about the idea of keeping me locked up until we get married-- I think she isn;t serious
Wow... that must be driving you crazy. Have you tried to cheat yet? Any nocturnal emissions?
mkman
11-15-2009, 10:32 PM
haven't had any full blown nocturnal emissions, but there is definitely leakage-- she thinks its pretty funny.
Its pretty tough but the whole thing has been really good for our relationship, she has embraced beyond my wildest (and somewhat regrettably) expectations. It keeps sex exciting- she always surprises me sometimes I get the real deal and other times "sex" means her rolling over onto her stomach and relaxing while I lick her ass until I am told to stop.
I DO NOT try to cheat anymore- I did it once the first time she kept me in for more than a week. I got my dick out but my balls were trapped with it hanging off
When she found out she acted like it was no big deal-- put it back on me. One week later when it was supposed to my day to orgasm-- she tied up my hands, helped me to just about as close to the edge as possible and then squeezed my balls til I nearly blacked out and began lecturing me about what I had done the week before while I was helpless.
She got the whip out (usually it is something I beg her to do that she has never really showed too much enthusiasm for) she mad it totally unenjoyable. I think back to it now and its kind of hot the way she gave me no mercy but at the time and a week after I was in SERIOUS pain.
She is pretty unselfish- it took a bit to convince her it was okay for her to become as selfish with our relationship as she wanted. She is still very fair, caring, and we carry out a normal relationship. I know my place and when I step out of bounds she lets me know (recently even in public a few times she slapped me in front of her friends)
Right now I am eagerly awaiting the cb-6000 so we can keep the excitement going.
Sauur
12-07-2009, 12:57 PM
haven't had any full blown nocturnal emissions, but there is definitely leakage-- she thinks its pretty funny.
Its pretty tough but the whole thing has been really good for our relationship, she has embraced beyond my wildest (and somewhat regrettably) expectations. It keeps sex exciting- she always surprises me sometimes I get the real deal and other times "sex" means her rolling over onto her stomach and relaxing while I lick her ass until I am told to stop.
I DO NOT try to cheat anymore- I did it once the first time she kept me in for more than a week. I got my dick out but my balls were trapped with it hanging off
When she found out she acted like it was no big deal-- put it back on me. One week later when it was supposed to my day to orgasm-- she tied up my hands, helped me to just about as close to the edge as possible and then squeezed my balls til I nearly blacked out and began lecturing me about what I had done the week before while I was helpless.
She got the whip out (usually it is something I beg her to do that she has never really showed too much enthusiasm for) she mad it totally unenjoyable. I think back to it now and its kind of hot the way she gave me no mercy but at the time and a week after I was in SERIOUS pain.
She is pretty unselfish- it took a bit to convince her it was okay for her to become as selfish with our relationship as she wanted. She is still very fair, caring, and we carry out a normal relationship. I know my place and when I step out of bounds she lets me know (recently even in public a few times she slapped me in front of her friends)
Right now I am eagerly awaiting the cb-6000 so we can keep the excitement going.
Wow sounds scary but oh so appealing!!
tyecutie
12-09-2009, 7:41 PM
DAMN!! Nice one dude you are so >>LUCKY<<..
But in my opinion would have been luckier if you found a TOTAL CRAZY BITCH to begin with..Then you being submisive will even drive her into to total BITCHNESS..WEW.. PLEASE keep the updates coming..^_^
footjobfucker
12-10-2009, 6:05 AM
I got my dick out but my balls were trapped with it hanging off
How exciting !
I'm going to search google for a CB at once.
Earlier this week my CB-6000 split down the middle and I have had a few days of relief, and personally wondering if I want to continue.
Apparently it is covered under warranty and I sent for a new one, however my girlfriend has decided even though she didn't blame the mishap on me that a security buff is in order. She purchased an early christmas gift for me from Lori's tube-- these things appear to be no joke. She hinted that there is more in store for me by selecting one with a frenum piercing.
I am extremely fearful but would be yeing if I didn't say it excites me This has been the best thing for our relationship and complete hell for me at the same time. She has naturally become exactly what I had always hoped for but it is much less idealistic that my fantasy. She uses her position as leverage in every aspect of our relationship and I feel essentially helpless. If I told her I wanted to stop I am sure she would respect my decision but I love where our relationship is from where it started before the change.
At a crossroads. Any thoughts?
Well I'm going to try again to go into the world of Chastity. I have just ordered this -
http://www.maturemetal.com/product.sc?productId=1&categoryId=2
Hopefully this will be more comfortable. I'll let you know how it works out. :)
Maxdivor
12-14-2009, 3:58 PM
DAMN!! Nice one dude you are so >>LUCKY<<..
But in my opinion would have been luckier if you found a TOTAL CRAZY BITCH to begin with..Then you being submisive will even drive her into to total BITCHNESS..WEW.. PLEASE keep the updates coming..^_^
Nice post, S.
Yes, per tyecutie above -- I would think the more
Your goal should be for her to take an interest in this, and do it her way --
I would emphasize that to her -- it is a gift many women want, once they start to think about it and experience it.
She may well find the idea quite stimulating, especially as she realizes her increasing control over you through control of your orgasms.
Good luck -- and do keep us all posted.
Cheers, Max
DieForHer.com (http://dieforher.com/ceara/ceara-index.html)
herslut
12-22-2009, 2:50 PM
Well I'm going to try again to go into the world of Chastity. I have just ordered this -
http://www.maturemetal.com/product.sc?productId=1&categoryId=2
Hopefully this will be more comfortable. I'll let you know how it works out. :)
I am new to all this but find this particular subject very exciting -- thank you for keeping us posted. -- HS
My girlfriend and I have recently crafted a game/dice.
Used circle labels to mark each side:
2 dice:
Dice 1:
Sucker (tease and lock up without release)
Denied (no release)
Choice (she decides yes or no)
Release (cum by method of her choosing)
Date (must take her on a date to earn release)
Pegged (take it from her dildo and no release)
Dice 2: days til next roll
3 days
1 week
1 1/2 weeks
2 weeks
1 month
Her choice
Roll one dice to determine days until next chance to roll for release. Roll the other dice every time my cage is locked and secured.
First roll was "her choice" for both dice. She decided that I was not allowed a release but could roll again tomorrow (later today). Will keep you updated.
Let me know what you think
I like the idea of randomness... can be very cruel!
Maxdivor
12-23-2009, 8:05 PM
very sexy, very kinky --
i heard of one woman who made her husband's orgasms dependent on the cat.
(i get a special kick out of that one.)
cheers, max
I rolled sucker (teased and locked back up) --->>> wicked aching balls right now and dripping precum. Fortunately only 3 more days.
This seems like it is going to be far worse than my weekly chance of release
tyecutie
12-24-2009, 9:16 PM
Hope fully dude you get Release (cum by method of her choosing). and then she then decides to kick,punch and squeeze your balls until you cum.. That would be nice i know i would like that to happen to myself.^^
No luck-- I swear these dice are weighted. I am kinda enjoying the random factor but it has been unlucky for me so far.
I rolled "her choice" and 1 week til next roll.
We came up with a bet-- that if I could make 5 minutes of caning without quitting than she would allow me to cum anyway I wanted. I thought I had a chance until about 3 and a half minutes left when she let it rip. I made it another 30 seconds or so before quitting. It was unbearable.
After wards she pulled my underwear down and said it made her a bit queezy to know that she left the marks she did-- but I assured her that I fully enjoyed it (and I did)
As a consolation she let me out for a breather- rubbed me down with lotion and made me lock it back up. Then she pulled out a vibrator and helped herself while straddling me.
I am grateful to have found such a beautiful girl who has so much embraced my fantasy (and enjoys it) without me directing her to do so.
Update you all in one week
Hoalosope
12-29-2009, 12:14 PM
yea. The cheapest Gt4 i can find is about 650 bucks all the way upto 1,000 bucks. So i wanna make sure before i spend that money and it not be right.
DominaM
12-29-2009, 7:08 PM
Just jumping in. . . I have heard a lot of good things about the BirdLock.
Take a gander at this site http://www.keptforher.com/Products.html I like that they have cleaning supplies. That is the WORST thing about long term key holding. PeeYeeww.
-M
Maxdivor
12-29-2009, 7:22 PM
No luck-- I swear these dice are weighted. I am kinda enjoying the random factor but it has been unlucky for me so far.
We came up with a bet-- that if I could make 5 minutes of caning without quitting than she would allow me to cum anyway I wanted. I thought I had a chance until about 3 and a half minutes left when she let it rip. I made it another 30 seconds or so before quitting. It was unbearable.
I am grateful to have found such a beautiful girl who has so much embraced my fantasy (and enjoys it) without me directing her to do so.
Update you all in one week
Thanks -- always interesting -- sounds exciting. It's a common cliche in femdom literature -- I'm sure I've used it -- to "be careful what you wish for." But as we see, a true submissive being humbled, enslaved, and chastised is, indeed, a fortunate fellow. Happy the man who gets what he wishes, having wished wisely.
Cheers, Max
After a few more bad rolls-- I finally got a release. She said if I could last more than 5 minutes I would be allowed to have a second that night. I made it just over 2.
Locked again-- will have a chance to roll in a week.
Cb 6k split down the middle yet again back in Jan.
We took a break from the game while waiting for loris tube to arrive.
Have had it just over a week-- unbelievable comfortable and there is no way out-- definitely a new psychological kick knowing even if I was desperate or wanted to cheat she holds the only set of keys and everything is up to her.
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