A little help

[erebo]

Hi to all, and thanks a lot to everybody for this fine place.
Friends 'ive a little "problem" that i need to share with u all:
Francesco is my 8 y.o. cousin, as i can see many time he has a
shure interest for trampling (he tries often to be trampled by his friends)... but now the point: it's about 1 month that he asks to my girlfriend to try to walk on him (he don't know that she is a trampler), what we must do? i'm sorry to don't help him in his desire... i know how much it could be fantastic when u are kid and an adult girl tries to walk on you.. i had an experience similar,
but i don't know if it could be a wrong or right thing to do.

thanks to all for have read this.
paolo

ps. HAPPY HEASTER!!!!

[sneakfreak]

Fetish starts at an early age so he is probably a trample fetish, but I would not encourage it. He has plenty of time ahead to indulge in his fantasy. If he is really into it he will find a way in later life, and if he grows out of it all well and good.
Indulging in any sort of fetish activity with underage persons, particularly that age, can be misconstrued no matter how good your intentions. Not to mention the possibility of him being injured by bigger people.
Think of your own embarrasment if something should happen and you had to explain your actions, 8 year olds are often quite frank about things and might not hesitate to tell all.
When i was about that age i used to get my older sister to walk on me, and I also managed to get one of my baby sitters to stand on me. I don't have any regrets, but looking back it was a stupid act for the sitter to do. Suppose she had been caught or had broken my ribs.
Much as I enjoy trample fettish, If I had my time over again I'd rather not be attracted by girls who trample men.
Give this kid a chance to find his own direction in life, if he's a trample fan your girlfriend standing on him or not won't make any difference in the long run.

[UNDERHILL]

erebo, I must agree with Steel Etto and Sneakfreak. My desires to be trampled also started at about the same age as your cousin, and two older female cousins were instrumental in the development of my fetish. The first wet dream I ever had was from dreaming about being under the shiny black maryjanes of my classmates. I was devastated to find that being trampled was not what most guys thought about when having a wet dream. Like most people that lived before the internet, I thought I was the only one in the world that had these desires, and what followed was years of anguish until I came to terms with my fetish. At your cousin's tender age, he may just be going through a phase, and may grow out of it if not encouraged.

underhill

[erebo]

thank a lot guys, u all are right.. it's a stupid thing to encourage that so early...

have a nice week end! :)

[TF0]

No, I don't think its right to let the girl walk on him.
Fetish is not sex but in the mind of the fetishist, its close enough or its foreplay.

He's only 8-years old, damage aside, it would be like subjecting an 8-year old to porn magazines or worse.<---or like letting him feel your gf's boobs.

I'm not to sure about the adverse effects an 8-years old would have if he were to be subjected to such sexual things at an early age.
But certainly he is still too young to understand it or really "do" anything about it....so thats why it's best to not let him be "fixated" by such thngs and hinder his other developments.

Let him develop like normal boys do whether it's sex or fetish.
Besides if he lives in America, he'll understand soon enough from his freinds.
When he does gets to that age[birds and bees] you can share some insights with him then to make him not think of himself as a freak.

[Mistress Sara]

The post by amit496 made Me want to vomit.

I have taken the time to e-mail the mods. This forum does not need this SHIT.

Sara

[sneakfreak]

Well we may all be fetish freaks adicted to trample, but perverts we are NOT! And I think the majority of responses here prove that. People in my country are put in jail for even downloading and possesing pornographic material concerning children. Even the most violent murdering criminals in jail have nothing but contempt for those that intefere with children.

There are countries where sexual relations with children are considered normal, some of the Arab countries come to mind. If Amit is from there, so much the better, if not maybe he should go there. Of course these countries also practice torture, inhumane imprisonment and other disgusting past times, although it's good to note that thanks to the USA armed forces at least one of these sadistic minded governments has been curtailed somewhat.

As for sites with child worship etc, unfortunately I suspect there are more than a few, why don't you find one and stay there. As Sara pointed out, we don't need this shit on here.

[SaleB]

My aspect of the situation is folowing. I do not think that there is something wrong in leting her trampling him. But, he should not need to know that she is a trampler. She should not let him know that she likes it, that it is something cassual, because it is not. At the other side, when he has courage to explain to her what he wants and why he wants is I can't find why not. Just try to imagine how would you act as a kid when someone says to you: (1) "Shure, it will be my pleassure to trample you." and (2) "I do not know I may hurt you, but if you insist I can try." The second one, by my opinion, can be bether for his little fantasy world. At that age other kids may be not understanding enough if he does not think about it as a secret desire; and there are teachers and parrents, too.

Other point of my opinion, with what many may not agree is following. If she considers and agrees with him, to try it. It may not be wrong how painfull and dangerous can it be, but also not to forget that it is not you and that his limits are far under yours. In his age I was dreaming of a female construction yard female worker and confrontation with some machine. I can only thank god, that on many construction yards were no female workers and that I was not crazy enough to try it without consideration of the sex of the machine worker.

It can be dangerous

SaleB

[memphisdoormat]

heck just make a game out of it...see how tough the little guy is...He will probably see he can't take it & change his mind & move on...how much does your girlfriend weight? Just get her to put a little weight on him...so he understands what it feels like...before he does something crazy to get his self hurt...like hidding under something to get trampled on...

[Steel Etto]

This kid is 8. Sure, most of us here went for this at similar ages - but that shouldn't colour the judgement.

A grown woman cannot crush a child, or sexually interfere with him, or do any other such thing. Him craving it makes it emotionally hard - but that is irrelevant.

(This post has been amended, by me, because of the withdrawal of a separate post to which it referred. It is not my intention to mislead - it was just that it made no sense. Beyond that, I think the view presented is now shorter, and clearer, as a result - and I have therefore removed other posts of mine which were perhaps less efficient, and which also referred to suggestions that have now been removed.)

S

[Sole man69]

ALRIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You all got me in this now, I can't take it anymore...........

Look..... The kid is 8 right? Ok, we all been through it and we all had our fun back then. Why do when we become adults, we want to take away the experiments of a child? When an adult took away a curious thought from us as kids, we hated it...We said we would NEVER do that when we become adults. LIARS!!!!!!!!!!
You all are right though, she shouldn't walk on an 8 year old kid.
But what's wrong with her sitting on a chair or sitting on the couch and rubbing her feet on him? What's wrong with footsie? A lot of women do it to kids all the time in every country, and no one see any harm in it. Add a little pressure from the seated possition, play "smell my feet" (he'll get a kick out of that one), tickle the ribs and tummy with her toes..........Now what's wrong with that???? Full weight standing up trampling........NO.
Sitting down, half weight(if at all), playful trampling.......SURE.
AS LONG AS SHE DON'T MAKE/LET HIM SUCK HER TOES, TOUCH HIS "DOWN UNDER" WITH HER FEET, OR ANY OTHER SEX ACT FOR HER AMUSEMENT OR ANYONE ELSE'S!!!!!!!!!!!!......

I may talk a lot of trash and piss off some people in here at times, but this type of stuff I do know what I'm talking about. Look at this from ALL points of views.......adults, kids, parents, cops, courts, yours, and hers. After you look at all pov's, you will see that this is harmless in any way as long as you keep it clean. Do it while watching a tv show or a movie, or do it while she's reading the paper or a book, or just make a spontanious game out of it ( a short game that is).

Solefully yours.............

[Mistress Sara]

Look..... The kid is 8 right? Ok, we all been through it and we all had our fun back then. Why do when we become adults, we want to take away the experiments of a child? When an adult took away a curious thought from us as kids, we hated it...We said we would NEVER do that when we become adults. LIARS!!!!!!!!!!


When we are children and our brain was not developed we say these things to convince ourselves that we will be better parents/adults than the ones we had at the time. (Note, the brain is not developed and so this is why we say stupid things like that)

When we are adults our brains are developed and we should know better than to involve a child in things that they do not understand. They are not old enough to make a rational decision at 8 years old. How many of you have children on this board and why is it that you are not speaking out on it? Are you afraid to rock the boat? Who cares, rock the boat this is damned wrong and it is disturbing. Children do not belong in the adult sexual world.

The girlfriend should not play or encourage this little boy in any way shape or form. If he is going to go along the fetish path he needs to do it like you all did. The brains are different. Leave the little boy alone. Do not subject this child to improper activities because if you do, that makes you a child molester.

He will get his opportunities, but he doesn't need help from an adult. Think about this, if he is still interested when he is older he's got the internet, that is something you guys never had, so let him be, he will be fine and plus, he may not even be going down that path.


This thread disturbs me a great deal.

Sara

[Bubbles]

I've got news for you folks. At 8 years old, a fetish is already ingrained in the child's subconcious. The development of fetishism occurs in what is known as the "Oedipal Stage" in a child's sexual development, usually around the ages of 3 or 4. Someone was messing with this child's head during those years for him to now, at 8 years old, be exhibiting a desire for feet and trample. Could have been a family member, (mother, sister, aunt, cousin, etc.),or a close family associate, (babysitter, friend, etc.). They probably didn't realize it at the time, and thought the child would "forget". Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way. I've done much research on this subject to have come to these conclusions, which are supported by the writings of Freud. If there are any doubters, there is plenty of material available on this subject at your local library. However, I give fair warning: Once you learn how your fetish came to be, you may wish you never knew. Good luck!

[TF0]

I don't really think anyone really knows yet how sexual imprinting occurs and at what age it occurs.
Don't make me get started about Freud's theories LOL.

Around 8, a kid should have started to grasp at what he "wants" but he is still impressionable. Or should be.
LOL...thats the problem with freud's theories, every different culture throws his stage development template out of whack.

But regardless, letting the woman walk on him would be wrong.
It has really nothing about trying to discourage him from developing a fetish.
No, it's about not encouraging him in the wrong way and giving him the wrong impression about sexual conduct.
And that holds true to everything sexual.

Take a diff. child who prefers women's breasts over all else[who is what we would think as a normal child LOL ]...<---should we encourage that kid to feel the gf's boobs then?
How would he think about women if he is encouraged like that right off the bat?

[Mistress Sara]

I do not care about Freud, and don’t get Me started on that either. I have read the theories. Some of them make Me want to roll My eyes a lot. I just think that the few here that think that it is "okay" to give in to this kid are wrong. Adults are supposed to protect kids, not abuse them. I agree with you TFO. You made the point when you changed it from feet to breasts.





You don’t mess with kids damn it!

Sara

[platformsnasics]

What, in your opinion, classifies as "kids"?

Surely trampling a 17 year old couldn't be that bad.

[Bubbles]

There are very few people who actually know why they like feet, trample, shoes , or any other unnatural sexual object or act. Some people actually believe that they were born that way. (Talk about ignorance). That should, in itself, lend credence to the theory that sexual imprinting occurs at an age BEFORE the recallable memory process begins. At the stage (ages 3 or 4) where most memories are relegated to the subconcious. It took me a long time to learn how I developed my fetish. I looked at old family photos. Visited my old house, and the house where my early molestations took place. Finally I started to remember, and then realized how I came to love the smell of feet, and the feel of feet on my body and face.

[bcurt]

Speaking of Freud...I've always had this theory that I'm not a "breast man" because my mother never breast fed me. I wonder what Jung would have to say about that? :D

PS - Leave the kid alone and let him develop his own interests as he matures!:mad:

[Heckron]

As someone who has just graduated to adulthood( 20 yrs... :p ) I just have to say...

When I was 8, I knew I liked feet...I didn't know it was a fetish...and I would have loved if some girl did something like trample me or play with me with her feet......BUT.......Being a responsible adult now(in the loosest sense of the word) I will say this...As fetishists ourselves we remember our childhood days and wish things like this happened to us...and we want our children to get what we didn't....and that's where there is controversy about this topic...As adults we realize this is not right to do to a child when the woman is aware of what it does to the child. EVEN IF WE WOULD HAVE WISHED IT FOR OURSELVES....IT ISN'T RIGHT TO DO TO A CHILD!!!

Heckron

P.S. If my msg is confusing at all...I'm firmly on the hell no don't do it side of this argument... ;)

P.S.P.S. I'm with Ms Sara on this...this thread bothers me...

[memphisdoormat]

i think you have everyone's opinion on this one...it's pronbably best not to do it !!! Let's move on to another subject...Everyone should visit Memphis in May some cool concerts & bar b que to die for.....Visit Beale Street & have a few drinks...Been here 7 years never have been...Will try to go this year !!!!

[Sole man69]

Just to let "miss" Sara(lol) know, I do have kids, and my wife do play footsie with them, and she do know of my fetish and participate in them. AND SHE DON'T TREAT THE TWO THE SAME.
I don't see anything wrong with it as long as she don't apply full weight on the little guy. I'm not saying to make it sexual because that is wrong, all I'm saying is whether you think of it as sexual or not, the kid is gonna think of it how ever he wants. He's 8 years old, he's not stupid. And his brain IS developed, just not fully developed. If it wasn't developed, he wouldn't be in school with other functional kids, he'd be in a special school. 8 yr olds know what the hell they're doing(at least where I come from they do).
I knew what I was doing at 8, and still remember most of them. I didn't know everything, but I knew right from wrong and I knew what felt good and didn't. My kids know what the hell is going on, and they sometimes tell me what's right and wrong and they're 6 and 4 yrs old. So to tell me that an 8 yr old is stupid and don't know what's what, you're blind as hell lady. Or you've NEVER been around kids. I've been around them my entire life and I've studied every one of them. And from the mid 80's all the way up to now, I learned that these little people get smarter every 5-10 yrs. How did I come to that? I sit and listen to their conversations.
I've heard kids that young using words they're not supposed to know for another three yrs. and they're right on the money as to how to use the words. And most of them know what these words mean. So, yes, SARA.........an 8 yr old brain IS developed, just not completely developed. :p :)

Solefully yours........

[turbs]

sole man,

Now I know why you call people sick in the head...it's because you're a complete idiot. Now it all makes sense.

respecfully

turbs

[turbs]

And P.S.
How could you possibly know what an 8 year old is thinking when you clearly have the intellect of a 6 year old. Answer that one.

[Mistress Sara]

soleman,

Apparently you did not understand what I was saying. That is okay, others do. Every board is allowed at least one special case.

Like I said. I am through with this thread.

Sara

[Aramis]

I am wondering why this lengthy discussion is under the STORIES section and not in the Discussion section?? Let's all try to keep the Stories section for Stories and responses to them alone.

[amit496]

Firstly let me apologize to anyone (mistress sara too), and clearly state that i am not in the favor of chidl molestation.
Thought that i should share the state of affairs in underdeveloped countries and just awaken the gravity of this whole issue. That is what i meant by what is the big deal.
it is clear that i could and did not express myself correctly and once again am of the concrete belief that chidl oppression of any kind is totally disgusting.

[Sole man69]

Turds........:kissbutt:

Sara.............:kissbutt:

Why even fight about this crap? It's none of our situation to deal with anyways. And as for being an idiot and having the intelect of a six yr old..............the two of you are acting dumber than I am by continueing this crap ass discussion. So, screw the whole damn thing!!!!!!!!!!!!! Who gives a rats ass??!!!!!
:kissbutt: :monkey: :thebird: :moon: :bore:

[turbs]

You just proved my point ;)

turbs

[rugman]

Originally posted by Sole man69
"miss" Sara(lol)

I know what you meant by your comment. Suffice it to say that you have no frickin idea about what you’re talking. Note: the appellation MS applies to both single and married women, not to mention those with and without children.

[Tabasco]

Just consider this.

An 8 year old is smart and resourceful enough to get what he wants. If not from your GF, then from an aunt, babysitter, cousin, etc. If he's set out and determined to get trampled, it will happen from someone who is unaware of the corrollary between trample and fetish.

I don't advocate anyone to knowingly indulge a shild's sexual fetish. BUT, it will not be any better for the child if someone else does it unknowingly, so if the child's best interest is what everyone is concerned about, I recommend encouraging the child to talk about why he wants to be stepped on. And for god's sake don't ridicule, judge or make him feel like a freak.

I spent most of my life utterly ashamed of my fetish because it seemed so unique to me. I still have a hard time talking about it with others, but thanks to this forum and the friends I met on the internet, I don't feel so isolated anymore.

The child will explore as it is a child't nature. Wheather it's better to do so with someone who understands or someone who doesn't is the question you and your girlfriend must answer for yourselves.

BTW, Bubbles. I find your post fascinating. You and I share an innate curiousity about what makes us tick. I would love to read some of your research if you have anything published. Feel free to email me or post it in the discussion forum. I think it's fascinating!

[Sole man69]

I agree with you Tobasco, the kid will get it no matter who agrees with it or not. That's how I got it when I was little. Through family and school friends.

[Syphonboy]

The less you do, the better!

[Bubbles]

Hey, Tabasco. Thanks for your response. My research was not really for public consumption, but I can give you some of the critical points.

A child’s personality begins developing from the day he or she is born. Everything that they are exposed to from that moment on affects them and molds their personality. As the child grows, they develop an attachment to the person who takes care of them, just like any other mammal. The manner in which this person or persons treats the child dictates what becomes of the child’s personality. A child who is nurtured and breast-fed by his mother for the recommended period of six months to one year, usually develops an affinity for women’s breasts, with normal sexual preferences, but not necessarily a breast-fetish. If the breast-feeding is prolonged, let’s say past the age of 2, a breast fetish develops. In the same way, a child whose caretaker plays “footsie” with the child excessively, promotes the development of a foot fetish. A child whose caretakers bind the child to keep him/her from running around and getting into trouble, develops a bondage fetish, etc. As I stated in my previous post, the most sensitive period for developing a child’s sexual predilection is the “Oedipal Period”, around the ages of 3 or 4.

In order to unlock the secret to your fetishism, if it is still a secret, you need to read about different methods used to prompt memory recall. Some of these are in my previous post, such as looking at old photos, visiting old locations that were prominent in your childhood, etc. Others include meditation, visualization, sensory duplication, etc.

I believe that understanding how a person came to be what they are, is a precedent to “knowing oneself”.

Good luck!

[Luvsandals]

I have to say that as an 8 year old I would have loved to be trampled by an older woman!!! That would have made my day compleatly!!!!!:D :D :D

But now as a mature adult male and father of three...I have to say my opinion has changed conciderably!!!! The kid is only 8....let him explore and discover his sexuality and fetishes on his own!! It is in the nature of kids to explore and discover themselves, but they do not need an adult helping them along!!!

In this country, an adult being involved with a child in this manner would be considered endangerment of a child and is a crime!!!!
The bottom line comming from me is, let him be 8 and dicover his sexuality on his own!!!
To us this fetish is VERY sexual and to my way of thinking, any adult involvement in this would be about the same as any other sexual act commited with a child!!! I personally feel that anyone commiting any sexual act or act with sexual over tones towards or with a child needs to be taken out back and shot!!!

Leave the kid be....Hands off!!!!

[Sole man69]

Why is this post still around?????
Haven't this been beat down enough already
w/o all these johnny come latelys'????
Give it up already.....been there-done that......MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!!!:2guns: :machine:

[farmkid]

O.K. I finally found something I had to respond to

Think of it this way if the kid is determined he will find a way. I did, and I'm sure many of you did too!

I will start with this: I was 9 the first time I did this
As a kid I lived with my aunt and uncle. On laundry day my aunt's two friends would come over with their daughters Sara 16, Jennifer 15, Lisa 9, and my cousin Kirsty 16. It was their job to do all the laundry. There was always enough laundry to fill an area about 4 foot by 6 foot in front of the washer & dryer and about 2 foot deep across the pile from the washer & dryer was a large table where they would fold and stack the clothes. I learned that they would separate the cloths and would pile them in layers to make the big pile I described. I found out that I could dig my way under the pile and get trampled by all four girls on and off for about half the day before the pile would thin out enough for me to worry about getting caught. By the way I got to see Jen and Lisa at my cousins wedding two years ago (they moved when I was about 12). Lisa asked me if I still liked getting trampled? As it turned out they knew the hole time and had fun doing it.

You could put something under a pile of laundry crush it and make sure he sees it, and act as if you had no idea anything was there. If he really has the bug if you will it won’t be long before you find him under a pile of laundry. This way in his view it was all his idea, but at the same time you can let him get a taste of trample in a safe environment.(in other words you could step on him with one foot slowly as you reach for something instead of accidently stomping on him hiding under something and possibly hurting him in the proses.